Apologies in advance for the long post, I want to give as much context as possible.
I am a mum of 2 boys - ages 3 and 1 and applying for September 2026 reception intake. We currently live in Harlow and for the last few months been looking strongly at a move to Bishops Stortford (BS). We were pretty sold on BS based on Boys High and we are planning this move early so DS can be in a feeder school.
Although only 15 mins away from where we currently are, I can’t help but feel I’m moving even further away from family who are in Thurrock. So now I’m thinking about Brentwood - similarly good primary schools it seems and closer to family. We’d probably get slightly less for our money in terms of house size and I’m not sure how secondary schools in the area currently perform. I’m aware of the grammar schools in Chelmsford but don’t want my hopes set out on them and unnecessary pressure on DS to score well in 11+.
Ultimately deciding between Bishops Stortford (not too far from where we are now so familiar with the area, but further from family) and Brentwood (closer to family, but not too sure on its community feel and activities for kids).
Would love to hear of experiences of others who considered or have moved to either towns? What were the driving factors and how have you found it? Experiences from local schools in both areas would also be appreciated.
Thank you!