Agree. We are in the same position, although we are going for something fun with colour. I think anything will date, but if you like it, that's what matters. Our old kitchen was boring developer installed Howdens white MDF laminated doors with laminated chipboard worktops. This time we want something different.
After much research, we are about to order plywood units laminated with some fun Formica yellow/green colours from here https://cnccreations.co.uk/.
They are much cheaper than the fancy Plywood kitchen companies for the units, although you need to come up with your own plan.
They don't advertise the colours available on the website, but having called them we found they will make everything to our own specification.
They are even asking us a bespoke corner unit to fit into the 86.5 degree angle in the corner of our kitchen.
We are now trying to decide on worktops. We have some time to consider this as lead time is 7 to 8 weeks. Having taken most of our old kitchen out we are kind of camping out in there, including organising plumber, electrician, plasterer to do various things before we paint.
Our worktop options have basically been narrowed down to matt sanded stainless steel or Corian. My heart wants the stainless steel, but it will be more expensive so we'll have to fit it ourselves to stick to our budget. DH might have had enough of DIY by then, it's hard to fit it all in at weekends when we're both working full time, but at least both DS are now at uni.
What are you thinking of for worktops? And when you see pictures of kitchens, what do you actually like? I looked at DIY kitchens and I just didn't like any of the styles they offer. I wanted to find something that suits my style.