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Knowing that a house is the one

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ScaredSceptic · 12/10/2025 22:30

Viewed a house yesterday morning. On paper, it seemed to have most things we are looking for. It actually looked better in reality than the agents photos suggested. So many plus points, a couple of compromises. Lovely rooms, beautiful garden in a rural location but not far from amenities.

Yet neither me or my husband felt anything. No sense of excitement, no emotional reaction, no "feeling". We came away and both said, really nice, but can't see us living there. But neither of us could say why. I got an automated msg from the agent asking for feedback and I filled it in and selected that we weren't interested.

But today I can't stop thinking about that house! I can't understand why we had such a cold reaction to it. We were both really tired from a long week and didn't get a good night's sleep before the viewing. I'm now wondering if we were just not in the right frame of mind.

Has anyone else had this? Immediately ruled out a property and then started to regret it? I just compare it to a house we saw a few years back when we were looking in the height of the covid market frenzy. We both knew as soon as we stepped in the door that we loved the house (we didn't get it, it went to best and final offers).

I think I'm expecting to feel something like that again when it's the right house, even though I normally make decisions with my head, not my heart.

OP posts:
Grizelofthechaletschool · 13/10/2025 14:36

When we viewed our house the first time I didn’t get the feel at all. DH loved it, and reminded me of all its strengths, so we went back for a second look. Second time around I loved it, could see all the potential, completely different feel. I still love our house and am grateful we bought it

Olive567 · 13/10/2025 21:00

I went to see a house that ticked all of my boxes - and it just left me cold. The next one that i looked at left quite a few of my boxes unticked - but i knew as soon as I walked in that it was the one. Both in same town. I Completed on the second one recently - very happy!
But it surprised me that some of my 'main' criteria just obviously weren't that important after all - and some other elements were. Maybe this is the case for u too OP?

PolkaDotPorridge · 13/10/2025 22:07

I cried viewing two houses over the years because I fell in love with them instantly . We ended up with neither of them for various reasons but I’ll never forget them. They’re the ones that got away and I still pine 😆 DH barely recalls either 🤣

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