I'm in a stressful situation with my (detached) neighbours over their extension build. We normally get along well enough, though they can be a bit prickly.
I supported their planning application, but their excavations and groundworks appear to have entered Party Wall Act territory (according to a helpful property solicitor I contacted through my home insurance's free legal advice). The work to date is very clearly putting my property and our mutual safety at potential risk.
I need to address this but want to be certain of my position first, as they're not the type to say, "Oh sorry, we had no idea, we'll appoint a surveyor immediately and get this sorted." There'll likely be defensiveness and passive aggression, downplaying, and if I'm lucky maybe a bit of gaslighting too! So I need to be sure I'm correct and adopting an assertive but non-inflaming approach with them.
I've contacted several party wall surveyor firms for free initial advice (as the solicitor recommended) but haven't heard back. Meanwhile, I'm living with constant anxiety about it whilst nothing gets addressed. I've had major family stresses recently and feel like I can't cope with this too.
I've searched on here for past posts that might help and seen that @stevenway1 is a party wall surveyor who's helped others. Steven, could I possibly DM you please? I don't want to post specific details on here (I have good diagrams too - what a waste when Mumsnet loves a diagram!) as it could be outing.
Is anyone else knowledgeable about the Party Wall Act and what to do when neighbours likely should have notified you but didn't, and work is already well underway and possibly (probably) unsafe? I need a really robust roadmap for tackling this.
Thanks so much.