Looking for advice or any experience really. We have a beautiful, apparently easily lettable home. It is quirky and doesn't now work for our family (at least one bedrooms short, can't divide rooms due to listing, 2 children with additional needs including for private space, distance from schools able to meet our children's needs - which is a significant one). We have explored possible changes and extensions to death and there are no real further options.
After a long search we have found another home nearby that would be great. We want to buy it but won't risk a chain because of our children's disabilities and other factors.
On affordability, we can just about afford to make the onward purchase and then sell, taking a reduced price if we need to or renting our current home, but it would stretch us massively, where we have tried to be cautious in our children's interests.
I know the MN wisdom is you can always sell if you are flexible enough on price, but has anyone been in this situation and not been able to sell their current house? Did you default to renting and if so, did it feel risky?
The thing is that although we will have to move, it doesn't have to be right now. We could manage another year or two and save hard in the meantime. I'm just not sure doing so wouldn't put us in a fundamentally worse position, while we have already waited more than a year before finding something suitable. A final factor is that my husband is already nearly 55, so we have limited time on affordability.
I guess this therefore to ask what others would do in our situation and partly what you think will happen in the economy/market?