We bought what we thought would be our “forever home” and I’m honestly starting to regret it. The house itself needs a lot of work, but it’s on a lovely, quiet street full of families… except for the house next door, which is rented out to students.
Over the summer the landlord ripped up all the carpets and put down laminate, and now every little sound travels straight through as if the walls are paper.
I was actually relieved when I met the new tenants last week - they’re polite, considerate postgrads from India (the previous tenants were also really nice, although we only caught them at the end of their tenancy). When I mentioned the walls were thin, they were very understanding. But every night they sit up chatting until late. It’s not parties, just normal conversation — but male voices really carry, and I can hear everything. Last night they had friends over until 1am, and I just lay there feeling trapped.
I’ve realised the problem isn’t really who the neighbours are, but the setup: multiple adults in every room, right up against our party wall, in a thin-walled 1930s semi. It’s just a bad combo.
We’re spending a fortune on soundproofing next month, but I’m dreading the wait and worried it won’t be enough. I also resent the landlord, who hasn’t even responded to our party wall notice about our extension (his right, I know). Do I raise it, or just leave it since the tenants aren’t technically doing anything wrong?
Has anyone had a soundproofing success story that really made a difference? Or felt like they hated their house at first and grew to love it? Has anyone had a student rental next door that eventually got sold up (this one has apparently been let out for 20 years…)
I just feel so down about the whole thing :(
PS: I know I was warned about living next to students in a previous Mumsnet post… maybe it’s my fault for not listening.