Complete tomorrow- getting cold feet!

[bananashoes]

Hi all-
Like the title says.
We are leaving London for Surrey-a village setting vs a very busy area just a few minutes walk from the high street. We've got 3 kids and are all about to go through a huge change- on top of me being 30 weeks pregnant
I'm feeling a barrel of nerves bc I haven't seen the house since we first viewed in March- the sellers wouldn't let us come for a measure up viewing. And perhaps that's part of why I'm feeling nervous- we've driven past a few times and they've completely let the garden in the front go, which means the back garden will be a wreck (and the back garden was a huge part of the appeal as it's enormous). It makes me worried for the state of the interior of the house especially as they wouldn't allow us to visit. I'm worried we are about to walk into a bomb site.
Lastly, the change- city to village. This is probably most of it.
Please tell me how you calmed your nerves!

This is great advice- thank you!

and yes, I do plan on hiring a Gardener. I suppose I just wanted to be able to open the door and let the kids run wild while I unpack from day one but who knows we may still be able to do that

Oh haha I didn’t mean we are backing out! Ah well/ thanks for clarifying

I think I meant packing up- oops!

Hot head? I was literally replying to what you posted.

I can see you’ve since posted to say it was a typo- that’s on you and not an excuse for calling people names. If you’re silly enough to post something when you mean the exact opposite, people will respond based on what you’ve actually written.

I’ll assume your apology got packed up with your kitchen utensils.

You literally said 'we are going to back out' in the post they quoted.

Well you were quite rude to the person who responded to your ‘backing out’, calling them a hot head when it was your error.

Can’t see your apology to that poster though, just a chuckle at your mistake!

It'll be fine. But I have no idea why anyone spending hundreds of thousands wouldn't absolutely insist on a viewing a day or two before exchange, just to confirm to themselves that they're doing the right thing. I've done this every time I've bought and so have my children, no vendor has ever objected. If they did object then a swift threat of pulling out would do the trick I'm sure.

Probably a typo, but you did say it:

bananashoes · Today 16:41
You’re exactly right sorry we complete Monday not tomorrow. I keep thinking today is Sunday. We are going to back out, but I’m feeling very panicky inside about everything.

Nerves are normal OP. Make sure you know where, kettle, tea , coffee, cups and biscuits are. The rest will fall into place.

@Piletkawow, that’s quick! I need to take a leaf out of your book then if that gets it moving.