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Last minute nerves or making big mistake!

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CMG01 · 24/06/2025 09:07

We are due to exchange contracts to purchase a new build property on Friday (to move in the summer) but Im not sure we're making the right decision?!! We currently live in a nice village (been here over 7 years) where we've made good friends. DS starts Yr 4 in September and DD starting reception in the school in village we live in now. We really need to move as our house is too small and no options for extending. Nothing comes up in our price range in our current village so offered on this lovely new estate in a village 5 minute drive away. This might seem like no distance at all but what I've come to realise is that we can actually walk or get the bus from our village to quite a few more amenities than we would once we move. New village still has lovely community shop, two pubs and good rail links (including our favourite city in under 10 mins) but due to the roads is generally more cut off. This worries me as the kids get older. We're going to keep kids in same school as now but obviously will have to drive them about. Fine in principle but I worry I'll find myself too cut off when we move. Has anyone had any similar last minute wobbles but some positive stories of the move!

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NellieJean · 24/06/2025 09:12

Cant comment on your location dilemma but suggest you hire a snagging surveyor to uncover all the faults in your new build. Also check the estate is going to be adopted by the local authority otherwise you’ll be paying through the nose to a management company.

Gemstonebeach · 24/06/2025 09:15

You’ll make a 5 minute drive work and it will make the transition easier still being part of the school community. I did a 20 minute each way drive when I moved away from kids school and it wasn’t awesome but it was fine.

CMG01 · 24/06/2025 09:23

NellieJean · 24/06/2025 09:12

Cant comment on your location dilemma but suggest you hire a snagging surveyor to uncover all the faults in your new build. Also check the estate is going to be adopted by the local authority otherwise you’ll be paying through the nose to a management company.

Thank you for the advice. Yes the builders have hired a specific company to deal with any snagging as the builders are continuing with the rest of the development. The lawyers seem to have all the right paperwork to reassure us about the roads.

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CMG01 · 24/06/2025 09:26

Gemstonebeach · 24/06/2025 09:15

You’ll make a 5 minute drive work and it will make the transition easier still being part of the school community. I did a 20 minute each way drive when I moved away from kids school and it wasn’t awesome but it was fine.

Thank you for the reply. I was worried that not moving them schools to the new village will mean we don't settle or meet people but I think the fact it keeps us connected to where we live now might help and make the move less dramatic! I just wish I felt excited. The move to this house 7 years ago was a much bigger change for us but I don't remember being worried at all! Maybe having younger kids made the difference. Glad your move worked out ok x

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Bridport · 24/06/2025 09:27

I've moved over ten times and however wonderful and excited I was about the new house I always have a wobble at the last minute. The things that have made me wobble have never been a problem - I'm sure it's just a normal symptom of the fear of change.

It's only a five minute drive, you'll have a bigger house and all the good reasons you had for making the move and choosing the new house still remain.

In a year's time you'll wonder what you wobbled about.

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