An asbestos survey is a structured inspection to check whether asbestos-containing materials (ACMs) are present and, if so, assess their condition and risk. Because your property is from the 1960s, it’s true that asbestos is very likely to be present in certain materials (textured coatings, ceiling boards, floor tiles, pipe insulation, etc.).
For a Management Survey (the standard type usually requested during sales), the process is generally visual and low-impact. Where something needs confirming, the surveyor may take small samples – this can involve minor drillings or scrapes no bigger than a 20p coin. These are repaired afterwards with filler or sealant. It won’t cause significant damage to ceilings or finishes.
If a Refurbishment/Demolition Survey were requested, that’s more invasive, but this is not normally part of a house purchase and only applies where major works are planned.
Your buyer may simply want documentation confirming the presence or absence of asbestos. A survey provides formal evidence rather than assumptions, which is often important for mortgage lenders, insurers, and for their peace of mind.
If you’re worried about damage so close to exchange, you could:
Clarify with the buyer if they mean a Management Survey only. Request the surveyor confirm the level of sampling and any reinstatement.
Offer existing information instead (if you already have asbestos testing records).
This way, you make the process transparent while keeping control over how intrusive it will be.