Hello, I'm so filled with stress I've made myself ill over what is admittedly a very first world problem. But wouldn't mind some perspective.
Sold our house, moved to a new city and renting. Found house that needs complete updating but I really love. Great location for the price, layout perfect for our family, south facing garden, near everyone we know and things we do. However it turned out the house wasn't registered nor could the seller find the deeds.
So we naively waited, EA stringing us along that things were moving. At about 5 months in it dawned on us that they hadn't even submitted the land registry application, let alone processed it. So we begin looking again, admittedly half heartedly as I couldn't stop comparing everything to that house.
Then we get given notice on our rental, which makes us panic.
We go all out looking at houses, and we've just had an offer accepted on a great house, chain free, very big, no work really needed, but in a worse location - on a busy road with east facing garden, 15min further away from where we've been renting near the school, the beautiful park and shops.
Literally on the day we put the offer in to this House #2, the EA from House #1 calls us to say the land registry application has gone in, the seller has found a property and it will only be a chain of 3. Initially I got so excited that House #1 was back on the table but the reality of the land registry application taking at least 3 months + conveyancing of 3 months(?) means we'll have to find another place to rent before we can compete. And the fact that there's a chain, even small, risks the whole thing not working anyways.
The thought of moving into another rented property again, the cost, the effort, and the uncertainty of the chain working (and us renting for yet another year) is making me so stressed I feel sick.
Should we risk it and get the house we really want or go with ok (but still good) house chain free and just get it done? This will be our forever home as I'm never doing this again.