So I met with one of the neighbours, surly scaffolding man, and very surly builder yesterday.
Neighbour pleasant to begin with.
Very surly builder said nothing at all and wandered off mid conversation.
Surly scaffolder had drawn a rough and ready diagram showing how he wanted to put up scaffolding which, in fairness, wouldn’t touch the outbuilding roof but would take up about half our drive. Said it would be gated off and padlocked in the evenings.
I said that I had questions and concerns, and produced my long list. When asked how long the scaffolding would be up it took several attempts to get an answer from the scaffolder. He eventually said ‘about a month but it’s a slow job’. In my head I translated that to at least 2 months.
They seemed shocked when I mentioned that it might impact our insurance and would require a change to our car insurance. I was told that ‘everyone’ claims to park off road but parks on the road. I thought they might have offered to pay for the difference in premiums.
I pointed out where dh worked, and how disruptive it would be to have the noise and disturbance.
I then asked why they couldn’t put the scaffolding up from their side. Lots of shifty looks and then they said ‘because it is more difficult and expensive’. Things were getting frostier by this stage,
At no point did they offer to pay anything or to clear up afterwards, or any accommodating gesture at all.
I concluded by saying that we would run all the details by our insurer. If they said it was alright we would consider it but would want a party wall agreement or access agreement or some form of contract with clear details about what would be allowed and when and penalty clauses for each week that the work went over the agreed dates, and I would want to see insurance certificates. I was clear that this wasn’t us agreeing, but we could perhaps move towards a negotiation of some sort.
At this point my neighbour had a face like thunder and said: that will take ages and cost us a fortune. We hoped to start on Friday!
My response was not a chance, and that’s not my problem, and that we would be very foolish to consider allowing this without a legal agreement to protect us.
Neighbour stormed off and sent a text later to say that they’d changed their minds and might be able to do from their side after all.
So, a sort of good result for us but a horrible conversation that left me feeling quite discombobulated.
I compare it to my lovely neighbour on the other side who politely asked for access to our garden to do some repairs which took just a few hours, and then came round with flowers and wine and a card (totally unexpected and unnecessary) and were genuinely appreciative.