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Neighbour wants to buy easement garden access from us - advice pls

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lifeohlife1 · 03/02/2025 13:51

Our house is going on the market this week. My neighbour has seen the for sale board and has put a note through the door asking to buy our easement access from us and the cost of a deeds change, prior to any sale, as she is nervous of 'strangers' walking across her garden.

We have always been on good terms - she is a lovely woman in her mid 70s - all her adult children live close by and support/help her lots.

We are a mid terrace, she is the end of the row semi - we have a gate to her garden which gives us access across her garden and out her side gate into the street.

To note - we have been in the property 10 years and have used the easement maybe 3 times - once to fit new furniture into our patio doors and crucially one time, when i locked myself out and my 18 month old was alone and i was able to run round and through her side gate and then into my open patio doors.

For what it is worth - what has irritated me over the years is that the side gate is locked (we don't have a key) and so we haven't had full access (a breach of the easement, if one was to get petty) which could have been very stressful in an emergency (it was a total fluke it was open the day i needed emergency access - v unusual) and she has blocked her side of the gate with a heavy bench, which did stress me out with 2 young children - again, thinking of fire or the like. For an easy life, we didn't query/push any of these issues.

Even if we wanted to sell her the easement - a deed change is likely to take months and therefore may disrupt any potential house sale.

What other implications should i be aware of - is it common for terraces to have zero side/back access? I think it is useful for both of the reasons we used it above. The estate agent says you can offer it to buyers as an option to sell it once the sale completes, I think it may just complicate things and if i was a buyer, i would worry about annoying a new neighbour by saying no.

Any help or advice on this would be really useful, thanks.

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MrsKwazi · 03/02/2025 13:54

There are properties like this up and down the country and surely she was aware of this when she bought hers too?
I would just say no. You don’t owe her anything.

Nonametonight · 03/02/2025 13:55

Yeah, I'd just say no I think. It's unlikely she'd pay enough to make up for lack of street access putting off buyers. Tbh, I'd talk to her about the lock and the bench before any viewings too

neverknowinglyunreasonable · 03/02/2025 13:56

I'd sell it to her but only at the asking price for your house.

Floralnomad · 03/02/2025 13:57

Just tell her no and also tell her that for the purposes of showing the potential buyers the gate needs to be unlocked or you need a key .

caramac04 · 03/02/2025 13:58

No I wouldn’t sell it to her. I can understand why she wants to buy it; the buyers of your house might use it a lot. However, I’d think twice about buying your house if you sell the easement and if I knew you had I definitely wouldn’t buy as I’d feel a bit cheated tbh.

pikkumyy77 · 03/02/2025 13:58

You have to say no because it is a massive change in the value of the property for potential buyers. I don’t think she is planning to compensate you enough for the hassle.

DaphneduM · 03/02/2025 13:59

Just say 'no'. It would massively complicate your sale and could indeed hold it up. Selling is hard enough anyway - don't disadvantage yourself unnecessarily.

Theraffarian · 03/02/2025 13:59

I would assume you would limit your market if you do this . I know you haven’t used the access , but people in the next town over who have this all tend to keep their bins out the back and use the access to walk them round . Also to transport gardening equipment from back to front . In the event of having building work scaffolding etc , how else would they get it to the back ? How does your window cleaner manage?

I guess it depends on what other access you have , but in general I don’t think people would relish taking anything dirty through their house , but you obviously manage , so maybe a different set up to the ones I know .

That said I absolutely wouldn’t buy a house myself that had this access , so I understand why she has asked .

Fibrous · 03/02/2025 13:59

Im mid terrace and have access through the neighbours properties (which we use daily). Thats terraced life, tough shit. We all knew about it when we bought our houses, and it’s caused no problems on our street.

it sounds like you’ve been very accommodating but she has no rights to lock the gate or block access. Our neighbours have locked gates too but have given everyone on our row keys or the codes.

Jacobeen · 03/02/2025 13:59

No way

BigDahliaFan · 03/02/2025 14:01

She might find the new owners are happy to sell, they might prefer the security of less access to the back of their property. I've lived in houses where there's been no access at the back. But you don't need to sell.

Darkplums · 03/02/2025 14:02

No - you really don’t need to add this stress to selling the house. Your neighbour can start negotiating with the new neighbours once they have bought the house.

InTheRainOnATrain · 03/02/2025 14:02

We are mid terrace and don’t have any easement access through the neighbours but then no one I know has this and terraced is the majority of the housing stock around her (London). Maybe how common it is depends on your area? If we order new patio furniture it comes through the house! That said it’s probably a time delay and an added complication to your sale that you don’t need so I’d probably suggest she takes it up with the new owner.

Pootles34 · 03/02/2025 14:04

Nope. You want to make your property as attractive as possible, and the sale as smooth as possible. She can make her offer to the new people.

Why would you prioritise someone who is about to be your ex neighbour?!

ClockingOffers · 03/02/2025 14:28

No, because she won’t offer a decent amount to make it worth your while and it will take ages to sort out and the final nail in the coffin; it will make your property less attractive to potential buyers.

Frostynoman · 03/02/2025 14:32

I would say no however disagree with taking her on about the lock - if she gets tricky and a dispute ensues you will need to declare this

friendlycat · 03/02/2025 14:33

It would also be a no from me. She will have to make her offer to the new owner.

You won’t get a good price, it will complicate your sale, take too long to execute, put off potential buyers etc etc. there’s literally no benefit to you.

Floralnomad · 03/02/2025 14:36

Frostynoman · 03/02/2025 14:32

I would say no however disagree with taking her on about the lock - if she gets tricky and a dispute ensues you will need to declare this

This is a good point actually , leave it for any new buyers to take up with her .

Flossflower · 03/02/2025 14:40

No. This type of easement is very common in terrace houses so that people can get things in and out of their garden. You would probably have problems selling your house if you don’t have this easement.

SparklyBrickViper · 03/02/2025 14:44

Nope. Wouldn’t even consider it.

Fouradayistoomuch · 03/02/2025 14:44

Ask her how much she would be prepared to pay for it and if you think it is worth the hassle then take it from there. She would have to pay all associated legal costs as well.

Roselilly36 · 03/02/2025 14:52

I would say no, why complicate the sale, she can negotiate or not with the new owners.

TheFlis · 03/02/2025 14:54

Absolutely not. I wouldn’t buy a house with no rear access.

thrive25 · 03/02/2025 14:55

Ask an estate agent the impact on house value & request 2x that and legal costs before you consider

Then say no

If you weren’t moving I’d bring up how she creates a danger to your children by blocking your access but at this point risking a neighbour dispute isn’t worth it

crumblingschools · 03/02/2025 15:00

If you do sell it I assume prospective buyers will see the gate and wonder why you no longer have access