IWillAlwaysBeinaClubWithYouin1973 ·
01/02/2025 15:26
I'm looking to buy a shared ownership house, its all I can afford after divorce but an entire street of additional houses is being built next to this house - a 10 foot mound of earthworks maybe quarter of a mile long runs along the sides of all the semi detached and end of terrace houses on one side (so they are being built as the "top" of a series of T shaped roads). The house I am looking at the mound towers over my back garden, and eventually an additional 3 or 4 gardens will adjoin mine, at the side.
I've posted pictures to friends and family saying look I don't think this will work due to amount of building work. I mostly work from home and will be stuck there 24/7, also it's not as if they are well ahead with the work, it's literally at levelling and foundations stage. Now being told its a lovely house and people can't see what the fuss is about, I think the unsaid bit is they think I am "lucky" to be offered it under all the circumstances, I need to count my blessings etc.
There are other issues in that although the estate is very nice, the area isn't, its just a bit of land on an industrial estate, in a fairly run down town, its an extra 30 minutes commute on the days I do go into work, and there are no parks or green spaces within walking distance. And you can hear the motorway bridge, albeit half a mile away, it's a constant hum.
So there's where the shared ownership bit comes back in, if this house was all you could afford (and the house itself is nice enough, estate well laid out) and you were being faced with eviction from rental in 2 months, would you say oh sod it, I'll just take it? I'm feeling ungrateful and unreasonable, someone said to me you need to give up your dreams of anything better!! In case it changes advice, I am in my 60s and would plan to live here for 5 years till I retire, then rethink based on my situation at the time.