Please be kind - single mama purchasing for the first time on my own after a tough couple of years. I put an offer in on a property that was accepted for £20k below offering. Property had been on for 6 months and already reduced. I could see possible damp at ceiling and in a back room.
Survey came back with 2 pages of urgent issues, including major roof issues, possible shifting due to surface water problems, crack in garage wall, rising damp etc so I have had a couple of tradesmen/builders in for a quote. Main takeaway was there were issues that weren't typical of a property of this type and age.
The roof needs taking off and elements replacing (most tiles can then be reused), more down pipes are used as that's causing some of the leakage, ceilings need completely re boarding upstairs, damp course on ground floor needs sorting, leaking pipe under shower downstairs is partly responsible for damp floor - and needs to be taken out in order to be fixed, place needs re wiring and to sort surface water issues a new sink away or two are needed and some levelling in garden.
It's going to be £50-60k work before you allow for the subsequent decorating etc. I'm intimidated and a bit scared as am not a DIY queen.
Am I terrible to reduce offer by 40k (thinking it may end up at 30 less). It's a probate sale, and I'm also chain free as ex buying me out. Feeling overwhelmed so advice would be welcome.