I am mid extension and consequently post tastic at the moment (about to post another)
Make sure EVERYTHING is checked. Water pressure, water entry point, where meters live. Find out what knock on everything might have so a -> b -> c. My mind is currently on plumbing, but that's an example. I wish I'd known better EVERY SINGLE LITTLE detail to help me on a decision tree, I guess, for everything and anything optional. It's all very well being told that something can be done but if it turns out to be possible only if something else is done first or if £££ are spent I would rather know first.
My whole shower room plan has changed because of discovery of water meter in a silly place, the need to replace totally some shit historical pipework and a new boiler to name a few. Thankfully, came to light in time before it was TOO LATE for me to go with what would have been my ideal plan in the first land.
I might have investigated some more about some of that before even starting if I'd been aware of any potential impact.
Be sure not to be the reason for any hold ups. Not in my case but I've definitely heard that it can mean the team go off to another job rather than picking their nose. Find out from them at what point in the build schedule you need to make each decision
Don't rely on common sense. Be explicit. Not just builders, everyone. Something might seem obvious to you but seems not always to be to other people
My builder choice I didn't make a price decision for sure. It was rapport and trust and I'm confident they are absolutely doing the very best for me. I'm glad I didn't make a price selection
Don't forget to notify your house insurance
Oh and I've just found out that no matter what dimensions are in plans they won't be exact so my kitchen design needs redoing again. Wish someone had told me that!!! It's totally fair, I just wasn't expecting it which was totally naive of me!