I see I replied to the original thread. I grew up in Charlton Kings and we both have life long friends there, it really doesn't do anything for either of us. If you enjoy eating out, forget it. It does have easy access to a nice hill walk though.
I think secondary schools are more important, over the years Pittville has always been a complete 'no go', Bournside always positive. Bishops Cleeve, DD was always incrediably happy there and I understand many are currently, it's taken a bit of a dive in recent years, but on the up again. Leckhampton isn't that remove, and Bournside is a possibility from there. It has more of a (positively) busy main road with most things you might need within walking distance, bus service isn't that brilliant though (neither is Charlton Kings - thinking of you and when DC get older and independence which soon comes around). Only if you live on the edge of the hill (thinking top Lechampton Road/Pilley), you'll have immediate access to the beautiful hill walks around Cheltenham.
I'm still here saying don't rule out Bishops Cleeve/Woodmancote/Southam areas. Some parts are bit quieter than others, but pick wisely and you have access to a choice of pubs/eating out, cafes, supermarkets, clubs, best bus service in Cheltenham, choice of schools and if Bishops Cleeve is for you, a vague village vibe and lots more going on community wise for all ages. There's a large choice of walks in this area.