DH and I are buying a freehold property from a youngish widow (50s ish) who seems very unfamiliar with the process. She has been very difficult from the beginning, basically refusing to provide almost any certificates/reports/company warranties or get them done for things that are out of date eg FENSA stuff, electrical certificates, planning permission for loft conversion etc. The kind of basic stuff we had to provide when selling my flat and also my late parent’s home.
I believe she’s gone abroad for most of the year as she was trying to pressure us to exchange before she left, which we refused to do until we had at least some reports done (to try and keep the sale the agent actually agreed to pay for these as I pointed out we’d already spent a ton of money on the survey and solicitors fees and she hasn’t really shown much good faith at all).
But there are a number of outstanding queries that her solicitor is basically ignoring - we’ve now asked ours to ask explicitly whether he/his client are prepared to answer them. Would we be unreasonable to walk away if she refuses to provide this stuff?
I am aware she’s not obligated to answer or provide anything but when I was selling it was made out like I didn’t have a choice in providing various certificates and things and where I wasn’t able to I was made to pay for insurance.
I’m also aware some survey enquiries are arse-covering by the buyer’s solicitor but how do I know which ones are crucial (eg planning permission presumably) or could end up costing £££ down the line and which are nice but not integral?
Lastly, she also wants a two month window between exchange and completion, meaning we’ll have to stay longer in our rental. It seems quite a long time to me - has anyone experienced similar?