Just wondering if I am BU.
Our upstairs neighbours had a massive party a few months ago, that kept us and our 3 year old awake until 3am.
Last weekend, they put up a note in the lift saying they were having 2 parties on Friday and Saturday, and saying to come up if the noise was an issue. We went up both evenings and explained our son is a light sleeper and could they keep the noise down after midnight. On Friday they did, after we said we would call the police if they didn't, but on Saturday, when we spoke to them at 10pm as the party started, they said they wouldn't turn down the music, and said they paid a lot of rental money for this flat, and that essentially it was their right to have this party. It ended up with DH calling the police several times until they finally came at 4am when the music was still on full blast.
Tonight, the mum, who had been away the whole time, came down and shouted at me that we didn't know how to live in a flat, and that we ruined both parties, and that they paid a lot of rent money for the flat and therefore had the right to enjoy it etc etc.
She was positioning herself as the victim and said she will play the same game and complain every time she heard our children (that's during the day, never at night). She also said she would tell the police that we are harassing them. Am I unreasonable for thinking she's unhinged? Should I be more chilled?