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When would you pull out?

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LoyalCrab · 13/08/2024 20:18

It’s a long one- but any and all advice welcome.

We sold our house in November, had our offer accepted on our next house in December which is vacant. And since then we have had nothing but issues. Important to note- all houses in the chain are for sale with the same branch of estate agent.

Our buyer originally had a cash buyer who then couldn’t prove their funds but once that fell through sort of 2 weeks after their offer they immediately had another buyer. Turns out this buyer had a property that they sold to a first time buyer- who then dropped out in April but the EA managed to resell it to another first time buyer the same day. So the new buyer then had to go through all searches etc.

We are now at the point where our mortage and contracts have all been ready to exchange since the end of March. However, due to the time taken for the bottom of the chain to complete their paper work the next person in the chain searches and mortgage offer have all expired and they now need new searches which are currently a week late and the solicitors aren’t chasing. Our solicitor is ringing our buyers solicitors trying to chase them but the buyer doesn’t get back in touch . Estate agent is actually best placed to keep everyone updated as they have the information for the whole chain. Our searches have also now expired but our lender is happy to have some insurance to cover it.

We’ve been pushing for a date since July.
Last week we were told we’d be moving this Thursday mortage funds requested, today we were told our buyers solicitor only gave a yes it’s possible answer and so our solicitors requested the funds. But it turns out that actually the bottom of the chain isn’t ready and they’ve now only informed our solicitors today. So now we are going to incur a fee around the funds no longer being needed this week and having to be cancelled.

Our solicitor has pushed for a date - we have said next Friday at the absolute latest as in mean time I am 20 weeks pregnant and my child is due to start reception in September and I can’t even tell her which school she’s going. My husband starts travelling abroad for work again in September so literally is August or nothing until the spring.

are we idiots? Should we have pulled out before now? What options do we have? To be fair it’s not imperative that we move but we want the driveway, the bigger garden, the better school option and we do like our little terrace but it’s going to be a squeeze with a second child.

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KievLoverTwo · 13/08/2024 21:20

I think you would be mad pulling out now given your last few paras.

Sorry it has been so long and painful for you.

Bemusedandconfusedagain · 13/08/2024 21:22

Sit tight for now. It might all come good in the next week or so

Twiglets1 · 14/08/2024 07:39

I understand you're frustrated but you would be mad to pull out now when you are so close to the end.

By all means push for next Friday but if that fails, there is still no real reason to pull out. If it gets delayed to the very end of August or even early September that will still be ok. You'll just be a bit more pregnant and if it runs into September your child may have to start one school and then transfer to another one for Year 1 (or earlier if a place is still available).

Things have been allowed to drag on too long, that is true. But now is not the time to suddenly pull out when you have good reasons for moving.

Gamergirl86 · 14/08/2024 08:20

There's no guarantee a new sale and purchase would be any simpler or quicker than the one you're in.now. I'd sit and wait it out. I know it's frustrating but stating from scratch because of a time delay is going to feel way worse 4 months down the line when you still haven't sold/ found anything to purchase.

I'm currently 34 weeks pregnant, our sale goes through in 4 weeks and our purchase? God knows! Maybe December? I'll definitely be bringing a newborn home to my parents house at the grand old age of 40 😆

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