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Feeling like I’m being massively precious and don’t deserve what I want

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Tomatosoupandbread · 22/07/2024 13:42

I rent. We live in a quiet hamlet and have lived here for 3 years.

I don’t like the house we live in. I never got a good feel for it when we looked round, and it has never grown on me. However, the rooms are really good sizes and we have really nice neighbours.

The things that annoy me are:

We have no outside space-our front door opens straight on to the concrete path. There is no green space in the cul de sac-it is a poorly maintained unadapted road.

We only have the front door, so in the event of a fire at the front of the house we are trapped.

The decor is poorly maintained. It was “painted” before we moved in, but to this standard (see pictures). I cannot paint it because he got his firm of decorators to do it before we moved in.

I don’t have my own bedroom, I sleep on a single bed in dd (7)’s room.

All of our windows look out onto brick walls, and as a result the house is always dark.

We have one house bathroom and one toilet, but neither have windows and so again make the house really dark.

Only the windows in the bedrooms open. The rest are not designed to open (The glass is in a frame that screw the glass into place).

Are these reasonable annoyances to have about a house? We had to leave our old house as the landlord turned it into an Air B&B, and this was the only one available within budget. I feel like I’m living above my station having these grumbles, and if I could let them go maybe I would like the house more. I am studying at the moment, so hopefully in 2 years’ time my income will increase and I can look for a house with another bedroom.

Feeling like I’m being massively precious and don’t deserve what I want
Feeling like I’m being massively precious and don’t deserve what I want
Feeling like I’m being massively precious and don’t deserve what I want
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GettingAroundTown · 22/07/2024 13:52

Well some of these things like the one bed and lack of fire escape (why don't the other windows open) sound bad but the rest are Minor You're not saddled with this house forever. You can look for something else once your situation improves.

Safe area, nice neighbours all these things are far more important for a peaceful life compared to decor.

Tomatosoupandbread · 22/07/2024 13:56

Thank you for replying. I will be so excited when J do eventually get a place with my own bedroom and a little yard or garden, it will feel so decadent!!

you are 100% right-the area is incredibly safe and the neighbours really are lovely, and it isn’t forever. Thank you xx

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HappierTimesAhead · 22/07/2024 14:07

I think your issues with it sound entirely justified and I really hope you manage to move on in the future 🙏
You sound very level headed to be honest and I think you will get something better in the future

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