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Shoes off for a viewing?

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HollyLollyMolly · 02/07/2024 20:36

My house went on the market today and I have a couple of viewings booked in for tomorrow.

I have cream carpet throughout my house, that I've kept immaculate with a strict shoes off in the house rule.

Would I be unreasonable to ask people viewing the house to remove their shoes?

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ChopSue · 02/07/2024 21:42

DiscoBeat · 02/07/2024 20:49

I don't understand people saying it would put them off. It would do the opposite for me as I'd feel happy that they'd looked after the carpet and kept germs to a minimum.

Me too!

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 02/07/2024 21:46

Been viewing bungalows with my mum. I’m disabled and can’t take shoes off easily. My mum is elderly and again unable to take off easily so we had to leave a couple of viewings when asked to remove shoes.

One agent had a brilliant idea got us a chair to facilitate which made it possible so we now ask for one when asked to remove shoes.

WitchyWay · 02/07/2024 22:02

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 02/07/2024 20:40

I was asked this once and I declined to view it.

Luckily I hadn’t come far.

Put a doormat down so they can wipe their feet.

Did you expect to walk around a house with shoes on? That's both dirty and disrespectful. People work hard to keep their houses clean, and spend good money on carpets and rugs. No way would I allow a stranger to walk around my house with shoes on.

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 02/07/2024 22:19

WitchyWay · 02/07/2024 22:02

Did you expect to walk around a house with shoes on? That's both dirty and disrespectful. People work hard to keep their houses clean, and spend good money on carpets and rugs. No way would I allow a stranger to walk around my house with shoes on.

Depends on the culture doesn’t it whether dirty and disrespectful?

In mine it’s seen as rude and disrespectful to walk barefoot or even to be wearing slippers when people visit! It has to be shoes.

I have an ‘indoor pair’ when people visit rather than slippers. It’s a complete no no for a guest to remove their shoes or to ask them to.

Rainbowbrite83 · 02/07/2024 22:22

When we sold our flat, the stupid agent took the viewers into our wet muddy garden and then traipsed all through my flat with its pale coloured carpets and left muddy footprints throughout.

I was not happy. The carpet had been kept clean over several years with a shoes off policy and was trashed within half an hour through the sheer thoughtlessness of not taking their shoes off.

Pipsquiggle · 02/07/2024 22:23

I have taken shoes off for viewings. In fact the EA said - there are light carpets in this house, would you mind removing your shoes?
No issues at all with the request

RitaIncognita · 02/07/2024 22:30

AntParade · 02/07/2024 21:06

I have a friend who is disabled and has to wear splints in her shoes - she has no feeling in one foot and cannot walk without the splints as she cannot feel the ground under her to safely place her foot flat.

She has had at least 2 viewings refuse her entry because she has explained she cannot remove her shoes. She also doesn't have the mobility to hop on one foot to put on shoe covers etc.

I don't think it's unreasonable to ask - but please be mindful of other peoples needs and not be a dick if they need to decline.

I have a similar issue. I am at high risk for falling when I am barefoot, especially in an unfamiliar environment. So far in viewing houses, when asked to remove shoes, when I explain this, it's been okay for me to keep them on.

Heavenssakes · 02/07/2024 22:30

I went to one viewing, I'd been walking the dog first, so naturally at the door I paused, and offered to take my shoes off.
" I wouldn't bother", the esate agent drily replied.

I went in, and saw what she meant. Was glad I wasn't in my socks.
Nothing horrific.
But doubt any cleaning had been done in the last year.

Interestingly, there was a workshop outside, which hadn't been in the rightmove photos. It was probably bigger than the house, was obviously the workplace of a talented and incredibly well equipped woodworker. And was clean.

Crabble · 02/07/2024 22:37

I think it’s a buyers market at the moment, at least round here. Don’t piss your buyers off. I wouldn’t massively object to taking my shoes off, even though I think it’s precious, but shoe covers are totally unnecessary single use plastic and I would judge you hard for that one.

RaininSummer · 02/07/2024 22:52

Get some shoe covers. I would want to take shoes off to be nice and polite but can't walk barefoot because of plantar fascitis. Actually when I decide to view houses I will get some shoe covers myself.

GrumpySock · 02/07/2024 22:55

I'd always take off my shoes and then put them on again to go in the garden. And same for my kids if we came together. Cannot imagine going into smb's bedroom in boots. So rude.

DTisawazzock · 02/07/2024 22:57

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 02/07/2024 22:19

Depends on the culture doesn’t it whether dirty and disrespectful?

In mine it’s seen as rude and disrespectful to walk barefoot or even to be wearing slippers when people visit! It has to be shoes.

I have an ‘indoor pair’ when people visit rather than slippers. It’s a complete no no for a guest to remove their shoes or to ask them to.

That's interesting. What culture is that?

Saschka · 02/07/2024 22:57

Mumteedum · 02/07/2024 21:08

I think that sounds sensible. I viewed a house once. Didn't realise a cat had shat on the mat ( no, really). I skidded as I walked in and made a big cat poo stripe on their hall.carpet.

It was not a pristine house but I did feel bad.

It was a busy open house day...so just my luck it was me and not someone else 🙈🙈🙈

Thanks god you still had your shoes on, eh?

ilovepixie · 02/07/2024 23:14

Are you taking the carpets with you when you move?

Frances0911 · 02/07/2024 23:16

There was a viewing at my elderly DF house yesterday. When we returned there were two muddy footprints on the kitchen floor, near the back door. The upstairs bedroom has a cream carpet and I also thought I could make out darker looking patches on that!

BurntBroccoli · 02/07/2024 23:30

pansypetuniaheliotrope · 02/07/2024 21:14

No. Buy a job lot of shoe covers and leave inside the door. I wouldn't view a house if I had to take off my shoes. I have very painful problem feet, and can't walk barefoot.

Same - I hate not wearing something on my feet. I guess I'd bring my own indoor sandals if I was viewing anywhere.
Similarly though, I would hate people wandering around my house with stinky shoeless feet!

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 03/07/2024 07:10

DTisawazzock · 02/07/2024 22:57

That's interesting. What culture is that?

Greek Cypriot. I’m trying to think of a time I’ve been asked to remove shoes in a Cypriot home and I can’t think of one.

Were at family on Saturday- around 30 of us and everyone kept shoes on and BIL & SIL (the hosts) also had shoes on.

Im sure there are exceptions and I would take my shoes off in homes if asked. As long as I had somewhere to sit! Getting old and disabled.

GettingStuffed · 03/07/2024 07:33

TBH a cream carpet would put me off. I have dyspraxia and there's no way I wouldn't spill something on it.

OhshutupDerek · 03/07/2024 07:52

DTisawazzock · 02/07/2024 22:57

That's interesting. What culture is that?

I agree on this. I work as a Community Nurse and have patients who are Chinese, they supply sliders at the door for us or shoe protectors. Same with a lot of my Indian patients. Very rarely get asked from white British people.

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 03/07/2024 07:57

I’ve moved at least 20 times and not once have I been asked to remove my shoes, or asked viewers to remove theirs.
I’d rather visitors were made to feel welcome and wipe up the odd spot on a carpet. If they want to take their shoes off, they will.

MartyFunkhouser · 03/07/2024 07:59

It would annoy me to have to remove my shoes.

Provide a box of disposable overshoes by the door instead.

Twiglets1 · 03/07/2024 08:03

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 03/07/2024 07:57

I’ve moved at least 20 times and not once have I been asked to remove my shoes, or asked viewers to remove theirs.
I’d rather visitors were made to feel welcome and wipe up the odd spot on a carpet. If they want to take their shoes off, they will.

Maybe the areas you have lived in have been predominantly White British as it can be a cultural thing as @OhshutupDerek notes.

I have been asked to remove shoes or cover them with protectors which I’m happy to do as long as they are supplied.

In summer though you can’t assume people will be wearing socks @HollyLollyMolly which makes it more awkward to expect people to remove their sandals. If you feel strongly about this issue you need to provide shoe protectors.

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 03/07/2024 08:14

Twiglets1 · 03/07/2024 08:03

Maybe the areas you have lived in have been predominantly White British as it can be a cultural thing as @OhshutupDerek notes.

I have been asked to remove shoes or cover them with protectors which I’m happy to do as long as they are supplied.

In summer though you can’t assume people will be wearing socks @HollyLollyMolly which makes it more awkward to expect people to remove their sandals. If you feel strongly about this issue you need to provide shoe protectors.

I’ve lived all over - I absolutely accept sometimes it’s cultural and would happily comply. I haven’t said I wouldn’t remove shoes, I just wouldn’t ask any visitors ( not even builders! ) to do it.

MollyJustMight · 03/07/2024 08:15

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 02/07/2024 20:40

I was asked this once and I declined to view it.

Luckily I hadn’t come far.

Put a doormat down so they can wipe their feet.

Really? Surely it doesn't hurt to show redirect for someone's house?

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 03/07/2024 08:16

Heavenssakes · 02/07/2024 22:30

I went to one viewing, I'd been walking the dog first, so naturally at the door I paused, and offered to take my shoes off.
" I wouldn't bother", the esate agent drily replied.

I went in, and saw what she meant. Was glad I wasn't in my socks.
Nothing horrific.
But doubt any cleaning had been done in the last year.

Interestingly, there was a workshop outside, which hadn't been in the rightmove photos. It was probably bigger than the house, was obviously the workplace of a talented and incredibly well equipped woodworker. And was clean.

I like that agent 😆

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