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Thoughts on sellers doing viewings?

59 replies

northchesterforest · 11/06/2024 21:26

Hi there, in a nutshell our estate agent has said they will dramatically reduce their commission if we, the sellers, take on the viewings.

I work from home so I'm more than happy to do this. My only concerns are whether this will put buyers off?

Please give honest opinions!
I can be really welcoming and professional, but also give them their space... I look quite young for my age so I worry they might not take me as seriously as your traditional middle aged, male agent even though I'm the seller but I might be being silly.

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Sunnyside4 · 12/06/2024 07:42

It wouldn't bother me if seller showed me around, in fact, I know I'd find it more useful - you can ask about local area, ask one or two things about the house. As you say, at some point ensure they have their own space, maybe show them around and then say I'll leave you on your own for a couple of mins to go and look at anything you want again.

Pixiedust1234 · 12/06/2024 08:36

Twiglets1 · 12/06/2024 07:13

People saying they let people wander around their home unsupervised, is that really such a good idea? It’s easy for people to arrange viewings with few checks done.

I feel like one of the advantages of using an EA is that they do go from room to room with the viewers, though it doesn’t feel intrusive because they have no emotional connection to the property.

That's why I stayed on the landing/stairs or in the hallway. You are close enough to tell if cupboard doors are being opened whilst still giving them space. Just remove any valuables or medications off the surfaces, including any small but loved toys in case a little child falls too much in love with it.

Twiglets1 · 12/06/2024 08:40

Pixiedust1234 · 12/06/2024 08:36

That's why I stayed on the landing/stairs or in the hallway. You are close enough to tell if cupboard doors are being opened whilst still giving them space. Just remove any valuables or medications off the surfaces, including any small but loved toys in case a little child falls too much in love with it.

I’m sure that wasn’t off putting for your viewers at all having the owner hovering on the landing while they looked inside the rooms.

Sorry I appreciate people have different opinions so there’s no right or wrong answer. But I would find it uncomfortable having the owner hovering nearby and listening out for any sounds while I was viewing a property

Frasers · 12/06/2024 08:41

For me it’s a complete no. When the owner is there you feel awkward, like you have to tell them it’s nice, and they always look at you expectantly and like they are trying not to, and failing to look nonchalant.

if you go round with the agent is a much less emotional thing, you can be blunt and honest, when the owner is there, you have to be all polite and oh that’s lovely, great size nonsense.

Frasers · 12/06/2024 08:42

Pixiedust1234 · 12/06/2024 08:36

That's why I stayed on the landing/stairs or in the hallway. You are close enough to tell if cupboard doors are being opened whilst still giving them space. Just remove any valuables or medications off the surfaces, including any small but loved toys in case a little child falls too much in love with it.

honestly that’s so bad, the owner hovering like that.

Pixiedust1234 · 12/06/2024 08:42

It can't have been that off putting. I got four offers in the first three days shrugs

Frasers · 12/06/2024 08:43

Pixiedust1234 · 12/06/2024 08:42

It can't have been that off putting. I got four offers in the first three days shrugs

Edited

Wow, that’s an excessive amount, 😄

Pixiedust1234 · 12/06/2024 08:46

Excessive? What do you mean by that?

I'm just saying that owners can, and do, sell their own house successfully.

SpringerFall · 12/06/2024 08:46

I prefer an agent as a buyer, but if you have to be there I would let people walk around themselves and only answer their questions

Please don't go into overdrive selling the place

Seeingadistance · 12/06/2024 08:46

peoplearepeople · 11/06/2024 22:52

I'm in Scotland and it's a huge no for me. Luckily I've only had a handful of viewings where the owner has been present. I would cancel any viewings in future where I knew this was going to be the case unless I already thought I was in love with the house.

I find it awkward and don't feel like I can be honest at all. Maybe it's a manners thing, but it feels like you should only say nice things about someones house when you are in it! I want to be able to have a proper conversation with my husband about the house and not in whispered hushed tones. 😀

On first viewing I also don't actually want to see the people that live in the house. If I'm not drawn to them it might put me off. It's harder to envision the house being mine when the people that own it are actually still there. A bit like how estate agents say to remove too many personal photos etc I suppose.
That's just how I feel though. I know lots don't mind it at all. My Mum is a massive people person and talker and so loves the owners to be there! I'm far more shy and reserved.

As it’s the norm in Scotland for vendors to do the viewings you’re really going to restrict the numbers of properties you can consider.

Also, and for everyone who’s talked about feeling pressure to be nice about the house in front of the owner - you don’t need to say anything you don’t mean! If you like something, say so. If you don’t, then say nothing.

sawnotseen · 12/06/2024 08:54

I sold my last house by doing all the viewings myself. I could talk (positively and honestly) about the neighbours, boiler, the extension etc which the EA wouldn't know.
I'm currently selling again and am doing the viewings as I WFH and I want to be able to answer any questions they have.

After greeting them, I sit at my workspace so they can wander and chat. I then ask them if they have any questions so they can be answered there and then rather than have to ask EA to ask me then go back to them!
I did have the EA do a couple but I left a list of FAQs for him as I thought the viewers would also ask the same.
The place I'm buying I initially viewed with EA, but second viewing with the vendor was much better as he could answer my questions re parking (it's an apartment block) refuse collection, energy efficiency, communal areas maintenance, service charge coverage etc.
good luck

theteddybear · 12/06/2024 09:30

I prefer the estate agent when I'm viewing but it's no big deal. As long as u show them around and then leave them on their own so they can chat as they go round.

I also don't like doing the viewings when selling but did them all as was just easier.

Most properties I've viewed it's usually the owners, very few have been the agents. I'm in central Scotland maybe that's not normal around here 🤷🏻‍♀️

I wouldn't bat an eyelid at your youthfulness, I'd assume you know the valuing your home etc.

It's actually good to have the owners sometimes. As can give info on council tax, Utilities etc, parking (if that's an issue in the are-) and just local knowledge or things the estate agents never know!

What is frustrating is when they start telling u oh they haven't even put their house on the market yet but love yours and no doubt it'll be gone by time they sell theirs! Also the middle aged guy that showed up with his parents, then told me it was great but his mum was desperate to view it and it was out of his price range 😡 🤷🏻‍♀️

theteddybear · 12/06/2024 09:38

Any estate agents I've had show us around have also left us to wander after showing us each of the rooms.

SatinHeart · 12/06/2024 09:39

SpringerFall · 12/06/2024 08:46

I prefer an agent as a buyer, but if you have to be there I would let people walk around themselves and only answer their questions

Please don't go into overdrive selling the place

Agree with this. I don't especially like having the seller there but it wouldn't be a deal breaker if I loved the house. It's awkward if you are viewing as a couple and you want to be able to point out the negatives to each other, so yes buyers need to be able to walk around by themselves.

We viewed a house once where they were selling the family home due to divorce and the lady that showed us round clearly didn't want to move out. That was fairly excruciating tbh.

Twiglets1 · 12/06/2024 09:41

Seeingadistance · 12/06/2024 08:46

As it’s the norm in Scotland for vendors to do the viewings you’re really going to restrict the numbers of properties you can consider.

Also, and for everyone who’s talked about feeling pressure to be nice about the house in front of the owner - you don’t need to say anything you don’t mean! If you like something, say so. If you don’t, then say nothing.

For some of us that doesn't come naturally though, to walk round with a poker face while the owner is smiling & being friendly. It's natural when you go to someone's house for the first time to say something complimentary and so you look for the positives whereas with an EA you can also voice your concerns about "the living room being a bit too dark" or "the astro turf is a turn off" or whatever. Which could be useful feedback if the property fails to sell quickly.

It sounds like people from Scotland tend to take the view that it's normal for owners to do viewings because that is the norm there but in England it's the norm in most areas for EAs to do the first viewings and the owner maybe being there for second viewings when more questions are asked.

So to answer @northchesterforest question, maybe choose whatever is normal in your area as that will be what your viewers will be expecting & therefore comfortable with.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 12/06/2024 09:44

I do think estate agents have a nerve to ask this. Makes them a glorified admin service, with a shop window.

ToastonEggs · 12/06/2024 09:48

Im up north, when I was buying quite a lot of the viewings were done by a random key person who knows nothing about the property. I’d rather have the owner than a random bloke who works part time at the EA and whose sole job is to just let people in

AmelieTaylor · 12/06/2024 11:24

Pixiedust1234 · 12/06/2024 08:36

That's why I stayed on the landing/stairs or in the hallway. You are close enough to tell if cupboard doors are being opened whilst still giving them space. Just remove any valuables or medications off the surfaces, including any small but loved toys in case a little child falls too much in love with it.

@Pixiedust1234

i would fully expect potential viewers to open any doors/cupboards that are built in. I do & id be pissed off if I was then 'checked up on'

@northchesterforest I prefer it to be the owner if they feel able to give me some space to look around/think, but not if they're going to hover & make me feel uncomfortable.

im going to spend several hundred thousand buying a house, I'm not interested in pilfering shite from your cupboards🤣🤣(I have enough of my own!!)

you sound like the kind of owner that would make it a good experience.

Mildura · 12/06/2024 12:54

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 12/06/2024 09:44

I do think estate agents have a nerve to ask this. Makes them a glorified admin service, with a shop window.

I think you missed the:

they will dramatically reduce their commission

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 12/06/2024 17:01

They’d need to, if doing so little!

mitogoshi · 12/06/2024 17:02

I did my own, far better

NewtGuineaPig · 12/06/2024 17:11

Mostly I felt that this worked well for houses that we viewed. The owners pretty much let us wander but were able to chat and answer questions. The only one that was awful was a midday weekend viewing where both the husband and the oldest son were still asleep and the mum still insisted on showing us around the bedrooms. I think as long as long as there's no awkwardness along those lines it's fine.

LuckysDadsHat · 12/06/2024 17:20

I hate it. It's always awkward with the owner there. You have to nod and smile when you may really just want to walk out as its not for you.

The agent normally just leaves you to it and you can be honest. I can't walk in a room with the owner and go "oh this is a bit smaller than it looked online" as they will be pissed off. Where as an agent doesn't care.

Gettingannoyednow · 12/06/2024 17:24

We bought from an owner who showed us round - but they were nice and normal.

Also had some horrorshow viewings. One was a soon-to-be-divorcé, whose commentary went "and that's the parquet SHE wanted.... I put those marble work tops on for HER" and another one where the woman explained how you could fit 3 people in the shower 😉😉😉with her adult son listening.

IsadoraQuagmire · 12/06/2024 17:31

I'd a million times rather be shown around by the owner. Estate agents never know the answers to any of the questions I want to ask. I don't get this worry about having to make nice comments either, there are plenty of relevant questions you can be asking instead.

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