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Help! Any creative ideas to obtain a family-sized house just out of budget

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spicydonut · 10/05/2024 21:26

Hello! I was hoping there may be some creative ideas that I've not thought of that some of you may know about or done yourself to be able to obtain a property to raise a family that is slightly out of reach.

Our situation: we have been looking for ~5 years to relocate to a better area to raise our family in a nicer neighbourhood with better schools. We finally found that area 1 year ago and have been looking since then to find a workable house within the catchment of the good high school, which is one of the main drivers for choosing this location (although there are more). However, the house prices are premium level within the catchment. The house we require would be a 3-bed with office or 4-bed with one room being used as an office as I work from home.

We have seen a house that is 4-bed that is slightly over budget and just slightly out of the nearly guaranteed catchment for the school, but there is still a small chance they could get in.

The house is perfect for us and by the far the nicest we have seen in so long that could work for our family size wise and it is at a good price I think (although still slightly more than we want to pay - there is no negotiation on the price).

I freelance so my income is not guaranteed. However, I earn more than my partner so I figured it would make sense for me to work a bit more and he work part time so help with the school runs, which I currently do, so I won't be working every evening which has been hard. However, as we will be relocating his income is unknown at the moment. I know this sounds risky but I could alway go back to permanent if times got desperate but I would like to avoid this if at ALL possible.

We are hoping to create a better work-life balance without putting us under financial duress. I do not know if this would be possible for us. It seems as though we need to choose: either both work lots to give the children the nice family home, area, and good school OR work less but live on top of each other, no garden etc etc.

Puzzle: is there any way at all we can make this work?

I was thinking one way could be this, but I wanted to sense check if this would be a possibility and feasible/not against mortgage rules etc:

  1. Could we secure the house with a 2 year mortgage, stay it in a year, probably eat into my pension savings a bit to pay some of the mortgage. Then could we rent it out for a year (changing the mortgage to a BTL? - how easy is that?) in which time we would rent a place for a year closer to the high school to ensure admission. Then after that year move back into the property and hopefully the mortgage rates would have come down and we would be more settled in terms of knowing what income we have and at that point know if we can afford it. If not I guess we would have to sell?
  2. The other option is staying in the house for 2 years on a 2-year mortgage deal, use my pension savings to sub us, which would probably use most of it tbh :( if my partner won't earn enough, but when we resell we could maybe make it back as it seems a good price and needs a little work which we could do so maybe that could make a profit to pay back the pension pot?

Does anybody have any ideas or is there just no way around this?

Thank you so much for reading xx

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spicydonut · 11/05/2024 17:26

@CJ0374 that’s really interesting! Thanks for sharing :) xx

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spicydonut · 11/05/2024 17:35

So it doesn’t look like we are ever going to afford the space we actually need within the school catchment :(

I know we could try and squeeze in the 3 bed as suggested but the houses available within our budget are pretty naff.

The last idea I’ve had is go for this 4-bed property, do it up in a year then sell it before apply for secondary school. Then use the profit to help afford the house within the catchment, is this a possibility? The challenges I can see that would prob need a variable mortgage with no exit fees and the usual faff with selling so would need to make sure it was put up for sale with plenty of time. We would either then buy if there was a house or rent?

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Chewbecca · 11/05/2024 17:40

Do you have the funds needed to do it up? Do you know how much doing it up would cost? Are you trades yourselves so can do the work or do you need to find and pay trades?
Home improvement costs have gone through the roof lately so it is extremely hard currently to 'flip' a house and make a profit, especially taking moving costs into account.

Randomthought · 11/05/2024 17:43

spicydonut · 11/05/2024 00:37

Thanks guys. We pass the affordability checks I have a limited company - I just don’t want to borrow the max they’d lend us because to me it seems like a lot on the monthly payments.

We can afford it IF we really wanted too, but it’s at a sacrifice of a work life balance - hence looking at using pension pot temporarily. I’m looking at ways to do both - so the question really was looking at any creative ideas to achieve this, e.g, interest free mortgage for a few years then downsize etc, but we’re not eligible for that

Be careful with that. We are limited too. Passed affordability with flying colours. Decision in principle. Then once we actually had the house offer in they rug pulled up for 20% of the mortgage offer at the last minute. Luckily we could front but if you couldn’t I wouldn’t want to deal with the heartbreak.

Twiglets1 · 11/05/2024 17:45

spicydonut · 11/05/2024 17:35

So it doesn’t look like we are ever going to afford the space we actually need within the school catchment :(

I know we could try and squeeze in the 3 bed as suggested but the houses available within our budget are pretty naff.

The last idea I’ve had is go for this 4-bed property, do it up in a year then sell it before apply for secondary school. Then use the profit to help afford the house within the catchment, is this a possibility? The challenges I can see that would prob need a variable mortgage with no exit fees and the usual faff with selling so would need to make sure it was put up for sale with plenty of time. We would either then buy if there was a house or rent?

It's not a good idea as there is no guarantee you would make money just owning a house for a year. The cost of renovations would probably be higher than you think and you will be paying fees for buying and selling. There could well be no profit and you may even be facing a loss.

I'm sorry, this does not seem like the answer you want.

ISeriouslyDoubtIt · 11/05/2024 17:53

You should buy the best house you can afford in the best catchment area. That will give your children the best opportunities and life chances which are worth so much for their future.
Do either of you have parents who could give or lend you funds? I expect my adult children to stand on their own feet financially and luckily they have excellent well-paying careers, but if they couldn't afford to buy a suitable house in the catchment area of an excellent school I'd be very happy to give them a substantial amount to help as I'd view it as an investment for my grandchildren's future.

Startingagainandagain · 11/05/2024 17:54

Why do you need an additional room for an office?

Many of us who work from home work from the kitchen table or even the shed...

It sounds like you need to compromise if you want to buy in the area you really want and go for something smaller.

TaraRhu · 11/05/2024 18:48

Can you rent somewhere rather than buying to get into the school? Once you are in you could buy. Then you can get something cheaper and out of catchment

LizTruss · 11/05/2024 19:28

Well, I'll tell you what I did. You become an MP, get voted in as Prime Minister and 'BOING' you get TWO houses.
AND, and subsidised meals, transport, chocolate hobnobs, overseas travel and lots, lots more.
It's great. Actually it didn't last long for me as my lackeys weren't really up to muster on a few things (finance etc.) but 'hey ho'. Got the PM pension and annual 'expenses' (for ever) so it's not all bad.

Seaside3 · 12/05/2024 14:16

It does sound like you need to compromise, none of your ideas are great.
I'd also be very careful moving for an 'excellent' school. My kids attended what were excellent schools, only for them to suddenly start failing. Things change. A lot. Move because it's a better house, area etc and don't overly worry about the school.

nameXname · 12/05/2024 15:37

I know more than one family who has let out one bedroom to a lodger to help pay the mortgage. You can earn up to £7,500 pa tax free that way - that's c.£600 per month towards the 4-bed house. And if you charge more than the tax-free allowance, you'll still get to keep some of that money, on top.
https://www.gov.uk/rent-room-in-your-home/the-rent-a-room-scheme

Even if you do this for just a few years, it might help. One family I know did this in conjuction with the local NHS - they had a series of visiting health professionals staying. Another family had visiting assistant language teachers on one-year contracts, another had a series of postgraduate students etc etc etc.

Rent a room in your home

Renting a room in your home out - Rent a Room Scheme, types of tenancy or licence, rent, bills, tax and ending a letting

https://www.gov.uk/rent-room-in-your-home/the-rent-a-room-scheme

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