Thinking of re-locating to Oxford or Bath with DP and 4 year old DDs from North East London. DP keener than me but I can see sense in being closer to family and better secondary schools, close to nature and (slightly, in areas we like) bigger house and garden. She has suggested Oxford or Bath.
Oxford pros - shorter commute, bigger more exciting city, more diverse, good secondary school (but only if move to expensive North Oxford?)
Bath - bit cheaper, prefer Somerset countryside, close to Bristol for city life (and family).
Both touristy and very expensive houses/commute!
Not sure about Bath schools! Not interested in private (no judgment but not for us)
Grateful for any views at all