We’ve always holidayed in cottages in the uk. We’ve got two greyhounds so are usually looking for somewhere with a big garden and space to do a jigsaw, in a location with good walks and views. Cos of the dogs, we always leave the place spotless - as we appreciate being allowed to take them with us.
However, it’s getting more and more difficult to do these holidays without guilt, as you do feel you’re taking a home off the rental market. On our last trip to Anglesey we stayed with Boltholes and Hideaways which I thought would be more responsible than Airbnb, but when we got there we realised every second coastal house seemed to be let by them and I felt really bad. Also, the people in the local shop were quite unfriendly.
A few times we’ve managed to find suitable properties with enclosed gardens that are part of someone’s larger estate, or are an annexe to their quarters, but it’s harder to find.
I stay in hotels weekly for work, and also fly a lot for work, so that’s not a holiday for me. I don’t know what the answer is. We don’t really like lodges or holiday camp type places, we like to be away from other people.
We haven’t found the situation as fraught in rural Scotland (Edinburgh is another matter), but maybe I just haven’t been observant enough.