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My next door neighbour's garden is disgusting

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Heatherland77 · 01/04/2024 18:02

I've lived in a new build semi for the last three years, in a really nice area and I'm lucky to have friendly neighbours. I've worked hard on my home and garden and I'm proud of how nice it looks.
However....my next door neighbour has completely trashed his garden and it is a total eyesore. The first year, he just let the turf grow out of control until it was two foot high grass and weeds. He talked big and said he'd soon be choosing trees and having raised beds made of old railway sleepers etc. Nothing happened. He had some nice garden furniture that he left outside uncovered and it started rotting.
In the second year, again there was big talk of digging up the turf. He put string lines in to mark out a raised bed. He then put thick tarpaulin sheeting all over the turf to 'kill off the grass' but the grass just grew through it and it was a jungle again. I started seeing mice scuttling into my garden.
In the third year, the tarpaulin didn't move. He bought a second shed and spend an entire week constructing this bloody shed using the loudest circular saw etc during the hottest week of the year! All neighbours were pissed off by this point as we were all outside entertaining etc. In the July of that year, there was more big talk of paving the entire back garden and he bought four stacks of patio slabs which have stayed on our shared front driveway for nine months!! They are an eyesore and the cardboard has rotted down on each pack. His front border was so overgrown I spotted a rat scurrying out. I spoke to him about this and told him I was going to prune his front border myself to stop the rat from nesting. He was fine with this.
I had decking built in my garden last year and I told my neighbour the handyman I hired could take a look at the patio paving job and give him an estimate. They chatted. Handyman came back and said there was no way he'd do the job because it would be a case of digging 2 foot of clay out and the job would kill him. Fair play!
When I've hired a skip to move soil out of my garden, I've always offered for my neighbour to use it for no cost but he never gets himself organised enough to dig up some soil, even one bucket full.
Two weeks before Easter, there was more big talk of digging up soil and clearing out the rotten garden furniture, which is now falling apart.
Nothing has happened!!!!
There are mice, at least one rat, broken furniture, mud everywhere etc.
This man hardly ever goes out. He seems to sleep or game all day on computer etc. He just seems to be all gas and no mileage!
I am trying not to let it get to me and am trying to accept nothing will ever get done. Instead I will start to install screening and trees to cover up this eyesore. I'm in a position where I can now buy a bigger house and may want to put my current house up for sale but worry that my neighbour's garden will negatively affect my asking price.
Anyone else been in this position? Do I have any rights other than politely asking him when he might move the patio slabs off the front driveway etc?

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toomuchfaster · 01/04/2024 18:08

The rats are just as likely to be under your decking as in his garden.

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 01/04/2024 18:12

You can try contacting the environmental health department of your local council. Some councils do investigate and use their powers to get things tidied up. Ours has informed a neighbour they need to tidy up their rear garden or face a fine and incur costs if the council step in and clear it up.

Heatherland77 · 01/04/2024 18:13

I made sure the decking was completely rat proof composite, sealed off, pea shingle, netting, concrete etc. No way rats are in my garden.

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daffophil · 01/04/2024 18:14

I thought you were going to say it's full of rubbish/dog poo etc. it sounds like he just hasn't got the time or inclination to garden. The rotting stuff is a problem if it's attracting vermin but other than that...meh.

All of the 'big talk' is probably to keep nosey neighbours off his back until he can be arsed to do it.

Stayeduptoolateagain · 01/04/2024 18:14

My neighbour had a sodden wet manky old sofa in their front garden when I had a viewing day for my house. Their garden is also overgrown and unkempt. I received 7 offers; one was 30k over asking price. So I shouldn't worry too much. At the end of the day, you can't control what anyone else does 🙃

Elebag · 01/04/2024 18:15

I think you have a twin of my neigbour. Endless half-arsed "projects" happen on the other side of my fence.
I wouldn't mind if it was a "messy" wildlife garden tbh. There aren't even enough decent plants to attract small birds and insects.

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 01/04/2024 19:13

Just put up a 6ft fence and ignore it.

MrsMitford3 · 01/04/2024 19:48

Rats love decking

Nowhere is completely "rat proof"

queenofcruises · 01/04/2024 19:51

they do say that we only live about 6 foot away from a rat! the poor man, leave him alone, its his garden he can do what he likes with it. how would you feel if a neighbour knocked on your door demanding you do this that and the other to your garden.. you'd be furious and tell them where to go!

not everyone really cares about their garden..

OwlCityisthemostunderrated · 01/04/2024 19:53

I’d be really surprised if rats were attracted simply be an overgrown border.

OutOfTheHouse · 01/04/2024 19:54

My neighbour’s garden is completely overgrown and has random piles of crap. To be honest I’d sooner that than them be out there every sunny day playing shit music.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 01/04/2024 19:57

he bought four stacks of patio slabs which have stayed on our shared front driveway for nine months

this would piss me off . What he does in his garden is bad enough but he's impacting on your shared space too .!!

Blackcats7 · 01/04/2024 19:58

I would contact environmental health re the rodents. They will visit him and give advice. That’s probably all you can do but maybe it will give him a kick up the arse.
People like him are so selfish not considering their neighbours. I hope you get somewhere.

Soicanreply · 01/04/2024 20:09

Rats love decking . That's very well known. Not sure how grass can grow through plastic . But oh well. Concrete slabs are not the end of the world either. It sounds like he's struggling. He sounds like he wants to do things . But maybe there's mental health in the way and it stops him actually doing it .

Zzzzzzzzzz107 · 01/04/2024 20:10

We’re wanting to put our house on the market and this weekend, a couple of feet from our fence, next door have installed a 10ft high net to catch their sons footballs 😭😭😭 This is next to his 6ft goal. They also have huge cabin that takes up 2/3 of their garden and an average sized shed they’ve arsed halted painted so it’s grey with large brown bits. They had fake grass installed last week and last year they had their drive done and had a row of fake flowers installed.

Every time they start a project my heart sinks.

Heatherland77 · 01/04/2024 20:27

Soicanreply · 01/04/2024 20:09

Rats love decking . That's very well known. Not sure how grass can grow through plastic . But oh well. Concrete slabs are not the end of the world either. It sounds like he's struggling. He sounds like he wants to do things . But maybe there's mental health in the way and it stops him actually doing it .

Yep, I think he's struggling which is why I don't say anything. I do regularly check in with him to see if he's alright, particularly as he doesn't seem to ever see friends or have anyone round but then I get invited into his house which is a hoarder's nightmare of stuff he's half done and never finished, literally piles of wood in the lounge, two washing machines unconnected in the kitchen and I have to leave politely. I have to retain my own boundaries with him and do what I need to do to keep myself in a good place. If that means a higher fence, so be it. They're not expensive.

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fatphalange · 01/04/2024 20:34

Stop looking in his garden? I'd ask him to move the slabs on the driveway, the rest would be none of my business.

LameBorzoi · 01/04/2024 20:35

You aren't going to get rodents just because the grass is long.

AmandaHoldensLips · 01/04/2024 20:36

Build a nice high fence and give him a wide berth.

LameBorzoi · 01/04/2024 20:36

The hoarder's nightmare inside will attract them, however, especially if there is food.

Heatherland77 · 01/04/2024 20:46

LameBorzoi · 01/04/2024 20:35

You aren't going to get rodents just because the grass is long.

There's a compost heap he constructed from used pallets which they're probably nesting in. Two cats are always sat on the top watching the heap like hawks.

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TellySavalashairbrush · 01/04/2024 20:46

Tbh it does not sound that big of a deal. By comparison my neighbours have dirty nappies, left overs and mounds of dog crap everywhere in their garden. Their fence panel broke away in January and they haven’t done a thing to repair it, meaning there is a missing panel onto my garden so I get to witness theirs whenever I go out there. It’s not my fence and we have already reinforced it from our side twice (while they sat drinking beer in their garden ) so I refuse to help out again.

Heatherland77 · 01/04/2024 20:49

TellySavalashairbrush · 01/04/2024 20:46

Tbh it does not sound that big of a deal. By comparison my neighbours have dirty nappies, left overs and mounds of dog crap everywhere in their garden. Their fence panel broke away in January and they haven’t done a thing to repair it, meaning there is a missing panel onto my garden so I get to witness theirs whenever I go out there. It’s not my fence and we have already reinforced it from our side twice (while they sat drinking beer in their garden ) so I refuse to help out again.

I haven't mentioned my other next door neighbours who leave dog poo bags down the side of the house which we can all smell in summer but they've been spoken to by Social services. Neighbours are a nightmare! Sounds like you have some truly special ones!!!

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ButterflyTable · 01/04/2024 20:51

Sounds like he has ADHd to me

Heatherland77 · 01/04/2024 20:57

ButterflyTable · 01/04/2024 20:51

Sounds like he has ADHd to me

Yes it's possible. I'm no expert and it isn't my place to judge. If he openly says he's struggling that's different and I'd do the neighbourly thing and help out. Will just add trellis panels on top of my existing fence for now and be done with it.

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