Hello,
My DH and I are early 30s, professionals and looking to buy a house. Ideally 4 bedrooms if possible. We have family in South London.
We are hoping to start a family soon and obviously are trying to think ahead due to the high stamp duty as moving again in a few years would be a big financial hit. We also want to be near a good primary state school at least (and obviously ideally secondary schools). Catholic schools would actually work well.
We have considered moving to parts of South London (e.g. Sutton / Cheam) to be closer to family but I'm not sure we are so keen for that suburban life though having parents to help with childcare when and if the time comes would probably be very helpful. However, in this area we do not see many young couples around our age when walking around so are worried we will not be able to build a community easily and may feel isolated.
Other areas we have considered are Kew, Teddington, Crystal Palace, Earlsfield, Southfields, Raynes Park, Ealing, Dulwich, Surbiton....
We are obviously considering a wide range of areas and we are aware of some of the various pros and cons of each (plane noise for Kew/Teddington as an example). We are mainly trying to look South of the river to not be too far from parents.
Does anyone have any comments on how useful it has been to live near parents when starting a family and whether this should trump other things? Any experiences of young professionals (around 30 years old) living in Sutton / Cheam? Any other thoughts or suggestions of which areas could work well?
Thank you :)