Hi, i just moved here 2 years ago and I am having a toddler too, I love our life here. Let me tell you what I like about Eltham:
1, Easy to access city life (important for professionals like both of us). Very convenient for our families and friends to visit London when they stay with us
- one direct train to London Bridge, Victoria Station, Canon street, Charing Cross
- direct bus to Greenwich & O2 (big plus for us as we love going to concerts, O2 is also a good venue for entertainment & outlet shopping)
2, Lots of open spaces (important for kids)
We live opposite a park and we have a back garden so my son has a lot of exposure to the nature.
3, Amenities
Highstreet is 15 mins from us. We often go to Sainbury’s there for groceries. I also like some restaurants there like Vietmart, American Legends… There’s a new oriental shop close to Sainsbury’s which I like.
We also live close to 2 smaller supermarkets (2 min walk), so convenient.
i cant imagine living far from the basics!
Eltham centre is great, you have swimming pool, gym, library & and a small children play area ALL in one place.
4, Strong community
People are friendly and help each other out. The neighbours adjacent to us are all expats from other countries so we are like minded people. I find this area very family-friendly.
Also, the FB group of Eltham is so active with lots of useful content.
5, Good schools
Lots of good primary schools here and we are in catchment for some grammar schools.
This area is among very few places in London with that many grammar schools (when I say very few, i mean top 3 - I did the research)
6, Easy to access to many interesting places
- Bluewater within a short drive. Parking is free there!
- Chislehurst, Blackheath, Bromley etc… not too far (15-20 min drive) so you dont need to live there to benefit from those areas. If you live in those areas, you will miss some benefits that I mentioned above, especially proximity to amenities & city centre
- Convenient to drive to France, go to Canterbury, etc..
The only thing I dont like Eltham is it is not well regarded by some people yet despite the obvious benefits of living here. But I believe it’s changing with more expats moving here (I know some families moving here from Germany, the US, Dubai in the last 2 years)
I think your experience will depend a lot on the exact location you choose to live here and your priorities. I go often to my friends’ houses in many “nicer” areas but I would not move there as there is always something missing (too far from train station, further from city center, no supermarket within 3-5 min walk etc….)