We have lived in our mid-terrace house for a few years, and while you could hear the occasional thudding up the stairs or slamming of the front door the noise between properties has always been limited.
Without notice, our neighbours to our right started extensive building work four weeks ago. I am talking wall-shaking, picture-breaking, sounding like they are coming through the wall-building work. On a day that I was WFH and realised the extent of the work, I marched next door and asked what exactly it was they were doing and how much longer it was going on for. I then confronted said neighbour as to the extent of the works and whether a party wall agreement was required - they disagreed. Claiming no structural work was taking place, just plastering and a new kitchen etc.
We have had a bit of a back and forth about the work as the builders in the last two weeks have been working out of normal hours (weekday evenings until 11 PM, all day Sundays), she's now assured me that the work is nearly completed except for the new carpets upstairs(!).
My stomach dropped when she sent the message as I assumed they must have much more work to do as there is now NO soundproofing between the two properties anymore. We can hear everything, and I do mean everything from their side - in all corners of our house. I mean their downstairs toilet is at the back of their house but I can hear the flush in our bedroom located at the front of ours a floor above. Our properties are staircase to staircase but I can hear the phone conversations she has in her first-floor bedroom in our lounge. This means the noise is travelling through the party wall, across the hallway and down through the wall on the opposite side.
The neighbours on our left renovated last year and now their works are completed we've experienced no change in the noise that we can hear between properties.
Surely she's lying through her teeth about touching the party walls/structure?