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Taking our house off the market. It’s too annoying.

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sellotape12 · 17/11/2023 14:00

I’m fed up of having to leave the house every Friday and Saturday, or estate agents turning up early. Or then being super loud and waking the baby from his nap. I’m fed up of having to frantically tidy with five mins notice. This whole process has made me re-fall in love with our existing house.

FYI we live in a pretty popular neighbourhood of London and have a modernised mid terrace. We’ve had 41 viewings, no offers, all feedback has been “we’re thinking about it”. Everything we look at to buy as onwards is being price-pumped to try offset the falling market. Or it looks ok then you realise it needs some renovation work and with 2 year waitlists and spiralling costs, it’s no longer a good deal to renovate.

The reason we wanted to move was a busy street but tbh the volatility of this market and lack of options has made us realise our current place has more of good thing about it. So solidarity with anyone else who’s thinking of coming off the market!

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NewFriendlyLadybird · 18/11/2023 15:13

Janeandme · 18/11/2023 12:31

I really doubt many would agree with you. This isn’t down to the agent, people make offers on viewing because they want the property, not because the agent had a spiel. 41viewings and the agent is doing great.

The agent is doing well at getting viewings. But not at converting. That may not be to do with a spiel, but because, perhaps, they don’t allow much time for viewings and push people through; or they don’t show the whole house (we had an EA completely forget that there was a garage because it was at the back of the house); or they can’t answer questions about the house and don’t bother to go back to the vendor to get the answer; or they agree with the viewer’s negative comments. There are lots of ways to be a bad salesperson, and EAs haven’t had to work very hard at selling over the past few years.

NewFriendlyLadybird · 18/11/2023 15:43

NewFriendlyLadybird · 18/11/2023 15:13

The agent is doing well at getting viewings. But not at converting. That may not be to do with a spiel, but because, perhaps, they don’t allow much time for viewings and push people through; or they don’t show the whole house (we had an EA completely forget that there was a garage because it was at the back of the house); or they can’t answer questions about the house and don’t bother to go back to the vendor to get the answer; or they agree with the viewer’s negative comments. There are lots of ways to be a bad salesperson, and EAs haven’t had to work very hard at selling over the past few years.

They might also put people off making low offers. We had that once when viewing a house we really liked but which needed a lot of work doing to it. We were told unequivocally that the vendors would not accept anything in the region that we were considering so we didn’t bother. They sold it a year later for less than we would have offered. It was a different market then, but still …

Ellie56 · 18/11/2023 16:26

sellotape12 · 17/11/2023 17:27

Yes we have already changed agent. The price is reasonable and has also been cut. If we cut any more we can’t move onward. Anyway I’m just not interested. I think a lot of the people who came round are chancers wanting to nosey. We did have quite a lot of young families too but they’re (understandably) indecisive.
The point is I’ve come to realise we’re not that bothered about moving and the inconvenience of it all is taking up our weekends. We have realised that whilst our place isn’t perfect, nowhere is anyway, and there’s still lots of life left in it.
just wanted to share my experience. Selling is an emotional drain. We’re going to open a nice bottle of wine and celebrate staying.

Good decision @sellotape12 . I'm still traumatised by our move 26 years ago.

LeRougeEtLeNoir · 18/11/2023 16:43

sellotape12 · 17/11/2023 14:29

Literally there is a viewing in my house right now, a young couple from Clapham and I just heard:
”I’m not sure I can justify a move to somewhere that doesn’t have a wood burning stove”😂

get a grip Clementine and Cuthbert

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Surely they would have known that from the photographs?!?
Same with north facing garden etc…

Why going to have a look at something that you know will be unsuitable for you 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

BlueMongoose · 18/11/2023 18:49

sellotape12 · 17/11/2023 14:19

I feel for you @Time40 ! Do you need to move? We don’t. We just fancied a change. But we haven’t found anything better tbh and in any case, hearing other people come into our house and say “they haven’t done the loft?!” Or “why is their kitchen wooden UGH” or “their garden is north facing and we simply could never live with that” is annoying and has made me very protective of my lovely little house 😂😂
But I really do sympathise with other people who need to move, perhaps due to downsizing or family circumstances. It’s tough out there.

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'Why is their kitchen wood?'
Because it's more hardwearing than most other surfaces, has warmth, detailing, and depth to the finish, can be refinished fairly easily, and doesn't look like 1970s formica in 2010's grey. And was it wood on the photos? the photos you should have bothered to look at before wasting our time booking a viewing? Ah yes, I see it was.

'Their garden is north facing'...no surprise to anyone competent enough to use Goggle Earth and/or unfold and read a map.

'They haven't done the loft' If 'they' had done the loft, it really would say so on the details. Learn to read.

People who can't be arsed to do even the most basic checking before they visit ought not to waste Vendors' time booking viewings.

EmmaEmerald · 18/11/2023 18:51

sellotape12 · 18/11/2023 07:53

I feel you @ScreamingIntoMyPillow it’s like this everywhere at the moment. And as for prepping your house / flat only for people to cancel, it’s just a chore isn’t it? We’ve heard that from lots of people we know.
I’ve only skimmed recent replies but a few people are missing my point – I’m not after tips to push a sale through. I know I can reduce the price, or I can get a third agent; my point is I don’t want to. Emotionally don’t have the energy anymore, and secondly, I’m realising that I don’t really want to sell our house. This is the point of the post. It’s a bit like we went into marriage counselling with our house and then we realised there was romance left in it after all! So it’s a good thing.
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I completely understand this

tbh if you don't need to sell, I really wouldn't right now. Voice of bitter experience.

Northernladdette · 18/11/2023 19:40

It was obvious when we sold our house the amount of parking. Garage, plus two off road spaces, not to mention on road parking. The most common feedback we had was ‘not enough parking’ 😩

Babybaby8 · 18/11/2023 19:52

sellotape12 · 18/11/2023 07:53

I feel you @ScreamingIntoMyPillow it’s like this everywhere at the moment. And as for prepping your house / flat only for people to cancel, it’s just a chore isn’t it? We’ve heard that from lots of people we know.
I’ve only skimmed recent replies but a few people are missing my point – I’m not after tips to push a sale through. I know I can reduce the price, or I can get a third agent; my point is I don’t want to. Emotionally don’t have the energy anymore, and secondly, I’m realising that I don’t really want to sell our house. This is the point of the post. It’s a bit like we went into marriage counselling with our house and then we realised there was romance left in it after all! So it’s a good thing.
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I went through this with a house once!!

The comments from buyers were odd (made me think EAs brought viewers in without them seeing the listing first); and every alternative property I saw made me love our original house more. I’d get home from viewings and be relieved to be back.

I still think so fondly of that little house. We no longer own it, but I know exactly what you mean. We took it off the market and re-listed a year or two later when we were bursting out of it.

Housebuyingfamily · 18/11/2023 20:39

Everyone has skipped over it but you said yourself why this is happening. Your road is busier than you like, which is why you’re selling. That also tells me it’s not a particularly attractive road.

In my experience, such a high number of viewings without offer is always a problem with the road, or local area. Always. And people can’t appreciate that until they’re there.

MadameameBeans · 18/11/2023 23:06

"We’ve had 41 viewings, no offers"

Means it's too expensive.
If it was priced reasonably you would have had more than one offer after 41 viewings. You wouldn't have even made it to that many viewings.

MadameameBeans · 18/11/2023 23:08

"In my experience, such a high number of viewings without offer is always a problem with the road, or local area. Always."

And by extension that means the actual problem is the price. It's overpriced when you factor in the busy road.

But that's ok as you've fallen back in love with it, so you don't have to put yourself through 41 more viewings for nothing.

May09Bump · 18/11/2023 23:28

I'm glad your now happy to stay - I also hated the viewings.

I can't see any reference to if the EA vetted people before viewings - did they have decisions in principle for mortgage, proof of deposit / Stamp, proof of current property under offer if relevant, etc?

Unless desperate to move due to certain circumstances- I'd insist on robust vetting, as experience timewasters on previous property totally peeved me off. Who wants to prep for timewasters.

wishingiwas20something · 19/11/2023 10:14

BraveToaster · 18/11/2023 13:53

@wishingiwas20something "In previous market conditions we’d have been sufficiently financially motivated to make the move, but with interest rates so high, this isn’t as profitable as it once was."

This is also a very good point. I think a lot of sellers have are overestimating how "desirable" their property actually is. Certainly during the Covid boom pretty much every house was desirable, but even before that people were maybe more willing to compromise because between low interest rates and rising prices they could build equity quickly and move into something better in a few years. It was more about getting on the ladder/getting to the next rung.

Now a lot more of your monthly payments will be going towards paying interest rather than building equity and the days of climbing the ladder through price increases are gone. If you think you might be staying in a house for 10 years you are going to be looking at every detail carefully and also looking for more space.

@BraveToaster Obviously, market conditions do differ from place to place, but the London market although showing very slow growth isn’t actually falling back. Which means that listing prices still seem high and those without real motivation to move: death, divorce, downsize, many are choosing to stay put. Previously there would have been an equity grab that would have made a move feel more than worthwhile, but as you say, with such a lot of monthly payments being gobbled up in interest. However, all the agents who recently valued our home, told us our house value had increased by 300k + following a key renovation project, so there is definitely still room to staircase the market using this technique, but the costs of renovations too has increased, which means the barriers overall to property ownership are being made higher. Ultimately when the market is a bit shaky there will always be folks who capitalise on those conditions to get a good deal, essentially going shopping in a sale, if you don’t HAVE or need to accept an offer, there’s no reason to be part of the sale. Like many others, despite our house rising by 300k since 2019, since we need 250k to get another bedroom, and likely a minimum of 150k to renovate whatever we buy, this leaves us potentially short of the latter and we have concluded that 4 bedrooms may have to do us for the time being.

Lifetooshort23 · 19/11/2023 12:03

I feel similar. The market is in the gutter although I don’t feel like this time of year is a good time to sell anyway.
We wanted to build our own place which would have made things slightly less stressful, but the aholes, despite legislation in place which our build met, have decided nah.
having said that we’ve only had one viewing despite supposedly hundreds of daily clicks on our property. Frankly I just want to leave this stupid country!

HappySammy · 19/11/2023 12:13

Lifetooshort23 · 19/11/2023 12:03

I feel similar. The market is in the gutter although I don’t feel like this time of year is a good time to sell anyway.
We wanted to build our own place which would have made things slightly less stressful, but the aholes, despite legislation in place which our build met, have decided nah.
having said that we’ve only had one viewing despite supposedly hundreds of daily clicks on our property. Frankly I just want to leave this stupid country!

If it's hundreds of daily clicks you might want to check if it's been shared on Reddit. Sometimes it's for positive reasons, sometimes it's not positive at all. The subreddit is called spotted on Rightmove.

Crikeyalmighty · 19/11/2023 12:15

Yep- if it's a busy or main road then price comes into it- rather than a leafy side road etc.

It doesn't bother some people but if there's little difference in price between it and quieter side roads- those streets will tend to get the sales

fixies · 19/11/2023 15:24

sellotape12 · 17/11/2023 14:29

Literally there is a viewing in my house right now, a young couple from Clapham and I just heard:
”I’m not sure I can justify a move to somewhere that doesn’t have a wood burning stove”😂

get a grip Clementine and Cuthbert

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Lol we sold our flat in Clapham and had lots of bizzare comments like that. One said they could not bear the fact that there was a creaking floorboard in the hall. The estate agents said that young people are really fussy right now as a) their parents are buying for them in cash so they have no concept of value or what it's realist to actually buy b) they live at home so have no concept of mininmal discomfort or things needing done and don't need to move 3) prices are falling in south london so there's not much heat in the market. We had to reduce the price (that was over a year ago).

Don't move if you don't need to. It's awful with young kids. You are Totally right not to move.

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Wanderergirl · 19/11/2023 18:17

fixies · 19/11/2023 15:24

Lol we sold our flat in Clapham and had lots of bizzare comments like that. One said they could not bear the fact that there was a creaking floorboard in the hall. The estate agents said that young people are really fussy right now as a) their parents are buying for them in cash so they have no concept of value or what it's realist to actually buy b) they live at home so have no concept of mininmal discomfort or things needing done and don't need to move 3) prices are falling in south london so there's not much heat in the market. We had to reduce the price (that was over a year ago).

Don't move if you don't need to. It's awful with young kids. You are Totally right not to move.

I think in general new set of buyers standards are different. We don’t have equity to play with and homes we’re buying in London starts with 500k. So if you think about it, we do get quite picky in making a purchase for half million and up. If your home doesn’t have necessities such as sound and proper flooring, can you really complain if someone says, nah I won’t pay 500k and live with creaking floors. Especially that we don’t need to buy at all, and can just sit on our pot of money, invest it for retirement. It is sellers nowadays that have most of their money locked up in equity, which is much less liquid and hard to access, unless you find someone to buy it.

Wanderergirl · 19/11/2023 18:39

Granville1 · 18/11/2023 08:13

Sounds like the estate agents need to better filter those they deem eligible for viewings? Are all in a proceedable position? They need to have either sold theirs, be cash or first time buyers and/or have a mortgage in principle. If they don’t meet that criteria, ask the estate agent doesn’t let them view. That should cut down viewings

Also, could you do the viewings yourself? We did that after weeks of never ending viewings. Made it so much easier

I think taking your house off the market for now sounds good, especially for Christmas. The only thing I’d be mindful of is (that if it’s on RightMove as well as with your local agent) that it comes up as being “relisted” and I think people take that to mean there’s something wrong with the property or that you’re desperate and can come in with some really cheeky offers. Just something to be mindful of

Good luck!

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You'd be hard pressed to find any viewings if you start making demands for AIPs or prove of funds to just book in the viewing. No way am I sharing my financials and account information with random EA lol

Nave · 19/11/2023 18:47

The thing that used to drive me mad was “oh there’s not a proper garden”. (I had a patio). READ THE BLOODY DETAILS - There’s measurements and photos!

Georgyporky · 19/11/2023 18:59

I've had similar comments in the past, & I've always said to the accompanying EA "Is this not in your description" Do these arseholes pratts wankers clients not know the garden faces north, or whatever ?
Cuts down the time-wasters when the EAs amend the details.

Iwanttheraintostop · 19/11/2023 19:06

I would take it off the market now and enjoy the Christmas season in your home. When we were selling our house I stopped viewings over Christmas as I had just had enough of the constant tidying and getting small children out of the house and not getting any offers. You can always relist in Jan which is what we did.

FinneganFois · 19/11/2023 19:17

@sellotape12
41 viewings would persuade me to appreciate the current home. Are some of them second viewings? One viewer on mine asked for a second visit and asked to see the loft space, so I left the stepladders out, but she didn't bother going up to the loft. Also experienced viewers who made ridiculously low offers, when houses in this area were generally a fixed "going rate", and think some of them didn't have the funds to buy at the going rate, which was annoying as I had to prove affordability for my next home at the viewing stage.

Tistheseasontobejollytrala · 19/11/2023 19:24

I’m taking my house off tomorrow as fed up with the process. Had to put up with silly feedback from ‘ftb here, will you accept for your 3 bed renovated semi the same price as a for a two bed terrace on the same road, to idiocies like ‘the gas meter isn’t new’ .
Been on since August, had half a dozen views and offers that don’t even cover the renovation costs, never mind give me a small uplift of 5%. The price takes into account the current market and is a good chunk down on last year.
I don’t need to move, I would just like a new project. I’ll put it back on in two or three months.

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