I am 62 also, my comments are about my friend not about over 60s generally, at all times I am only referring to him and his needs and not older people generally. It is not agist or disableist to suggest that my friend who I know well would not cope in shared accommodation. The description of a double bed and a chair and a bathroom would be enough to trigger him into despair. He has a lifetimes' worth of possessions, a washing machine, a fridge, two bicycles, art work, chairs, double bed, tables and other furniture etc. his current flat is unfurnished, he has furnished it. Does he have to lose all his possessions along with his dignity?
What have we come to that we expect a working adult who has lived alone and wishes to continue living alone has to move into a room where he cannot bring his possessions, where he has to sleep on someone else's bed in someone else's home? It breaks my heart.
I'm fully aware that sharing may be his only option, I'm trying to help him avoid it. If it happens it will be a fast route to depression and giving up. He is struggling enough with his self esteem without having to cope with this. So please stop suggesting that because you know someone for whom it works, that it would work for him. It would NOT.
A room is not a bed sit, a bed sit has cooking facilities, his current flat is little more than a bed sit and he has stayed because it has given him privacy and a sense of control of his life. He loves to cook, food is one of his key pleasures, a shared kitchen would take this away from him. We possibly all know people who love or thrive in shared living, he is not one of them, he is not going to change.
He is not looking for the moon on a stick. He just wants to be treated with some dignity.
Huge thanks to posters who have made some great suggestions and some reassuring advice about over 55's waiting lists. He will be grateful. I will be cutting out the suggestions of rooms in shared accommodation and suggestions of becoming a lodger. He know that these loom, right now he is doing his best to not have to be forced into those. He's heading to work early to use his work computer (he doesn't have one- just a smart phone) so he can read all the stuff I've sent him as a result of all the helpful suggestions here (shelter, local authority, alms houses, HA over 55's etc) and complete all the forms he needs to fill in that do not work on a phone.
He has asked me to thank you and has a hope that this notice will result in a long term solution instead of the insecurity of private rented.