'The correct value of your house is whatever someone offers for it. If you have to reduce by 10% or you get an offer under asking you are not selling at a discount. Your house was not worth the original amount.'
Exactly this.
There are several deluded comments from potential sellers on this thread which show why the market is 'dead' in some areas. Eg.
'We don’t want to have to drop the price, we feel it’s priced correctly but clearly it’s the fact it needs modernisation is not appealing to people.' Don't you understand why it isn't 'appealing' to buyers? It's precisely because of the cost of the modernisation on top of the asking price you have chosen.
'Not in an any rush to sell so not gifting it to anyone chancing their luck with a silly offer'.
You wouldn't be 'gifting' your house to anyone. If you had only one offer at say, 15% of asking price, that is the current market value. It is the value that you have in your head which is 'silly'.
'The houses priced the same as ours are either in much worse condition or much smaller, so we know we are priced realistically. Been on the market almost 2 months. Not a single viewing.'
If you have not had even one viewing, it is not priced realistically! Something priced realistically would have had multiple viewings and also offers.
I can see that it is very difficult, psychologically, to get one's head around the fact that the market has fallen and continues to fall. I'm sure many sellers will take their house off the market and wait for years, some will re-list in Spring, hoping for a 'Spring bounce' but some will need to sell and those will make the market.