Want to know the ins and outs of self build. I always loved grand designs when I was younger and have dreamed of building my own home. DH and I both worked incredibly hard at school and went to very prestigious universities and subsequently have good jobs. We have never had any money given to us from family and had to scrape together the deposit for our first house. We are now earning a lot more and right move seems to think we can afford a mortgage of £1.1 mil. Unfortunately neither of us come from wealthy families so we don't have a plot of land or a spare house to knock down. Was wondering about the nightmares of planning permission when looking for a plot, where to live when building and how much a plot should cost. Also any ideas of the style we should go for. I really love an oak frame company I found online. Their houses look beautiful!