God I feel awful even considering it.
The flat we offered on has come back as unmortgageable with the only lender that will lend us enough to actually buy the property. We can potentially try other lenders but none of them will lend us the full amount based on what the advisor (whole of market) showed us before we decided to go ahead with this one.
The property is apparently unmortgageable because the communal parts of the block of flats haven't been maintained very well. I did notice some of this but didn't realise how bad it was. There is a lot of wear and tear to other parts of the building and the parking area is in a very bad state as well, and none of it seems to be managed by the management company. There are also quite a few tiles missing from the roof which I didn't see until I went back today and scrutinised it all. The exterior is shabby.
This seems to me to be a compelling reason to pull out as I don't want to deal with huge maintenance bills if the management company ever sort these issues, or with the disruption caused by the problems that could arise from these issues. We only ever planned to have this property for 2-3 years at most, as a stepping stone to move to somewhere better for our very young children. This one doesn't have enough bedrooms for long term, or a garden.
We are currently renting. Our rental cost is the same as the mortgage would be, but we are getting a 2 bedroom semi with a garden, garage and drive in the same town, and while it's money down a hole, it's a nice hole to be stuck in. The flat is also 2 bed and has bigger bedrooms than the house we rent though.
Also relevant is I'm on the up in my career, close to moving into management, and my salary in 2-3 years time might well be double what I'm on right now.
I feel like we'd be better staying where we are for a bit longer rather than trying to find any one mortgage offer that won't even cover the full amount we need, then trying to renegotiate the sale price (which also seems shitty to the seller).
If we go ahead, I'm worried that we're going to get stuck in a 2 bed flat with a boy and a girl if it's hard for us to sell it, because our potential buyer wouldn't necessarily get a mortgage either. But if we pull out we're going to have to either buy another flat somewhere nearby or move out of area completely to another town.
WWYD?