Thank you both. @Surplus2requirements Can't actually see the meter as the kitchen units appear to have been built around it. There is then a big piece of timber in front of that seems to be connected to supporting the sink unit and a long surface. Trying to disconnect it caused immediate problems, so stopped.
@MrsMoastyToasty It is a conversion. There is a main pipe that splits into several pipes with stopcocks, one for each flat. Lots of corner cutting over time.
Another flat believes they're paying for some of our water. We already don't get on. They are not reasonable people and in a position to cause problems.
I need to be sure they are wrong before insisting on better proof than supplied. If they are right, I need to sort it out without involving them.
Looking into everything, it narrowed down to the only possibility would be if that pipe that splits off to the bathroom first, is not on our meter and is somehow on theirs.
There was previously a water tank and immersion heater in a large bathroom cupboard. I thought that first split off pipe was for that, and the water for the bathroom taps, would be coming from the pipe that also brought the hot water from the boiler in the kitchen?
The meter was fitted a long time ago, after the bathroom water tank and immersion heater had been replaced by a combi boiler.
I think some pipes involving the water tank/immersion heater got buried in plaster when the cupboard was then opened up as part of the bathroom.
Later the kitchen was fitted, leaving no access to the meter.
I am wondering if it is possible this first pipe also fed the bathroom sink (and maybe bath) cold tap and they have somehow capped the supply to the old water tank, but not to the bathroom sink?
I am now looking for the least damaging (or cheapest) way of finding were the water from the bathroom sink tap actually comes from, as it seems that pipe is either the culprit, in which case we need to get it run it of the kitchen supply.
Or, cold water to the sink is already supplied from the kitchen along with the hot water. If it is then all our water goes through our meter, and they're wrong.