Long story, but I am in the process of putting my name down for social housing. I've already sent documents they've asked for (birth certificates, wage slips, bank statements etc) but I'm unable to send them a utility bill as all the bills come in under my soon to be exs name and they also want proof of being related to someone else in the area which I'm not except my two children who are still minors, even though I've lived and worked in the area for over 20 years. Just getting a bit stressed that I'll be refused. I'm in the east of England btw. Has anyone had any experience please?