@kidcrazy erm sorry to disappoint but no. Whilst we have definitely made the odd mistake here and there with property I’m not sure it could be said to be as you’re implying. We currently have about 44% equity in our home, likely to increase to around 66% once our works are done (and for that, whilst we have secured some extra borrowing, we are only using it as contingency and drawing down if needed, rest cash). It’s also our 25 year home so we are not too troubled by dips.
Furthermore, we bought early 22. By sept 25 we will be 3700 a month better off than we were when we borrowed (not even taking into account any pay rises for 2024/25) due to my increasing hours, end of nursery fees and husbands salary increases. So no, not blaming anyone for my “mistakes”.
the point of my post was rather to express understanding and empathy for first time buyers who often have no choice but to go chips in to get on the ladder and to say that absolutely no one, not even the markets, saw this coming so how could they?
it’s also people like my sister in law who are struggling and they bought 10 years ago - how could they stress test for something happening 10 years hence?!
try developing empathy, it might make you a bit happier wit yourself