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Buying with partner? Yes or no

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blogvlog · 18/06/2023 10:23

if I have the deposit and he can’t go on the mortgage should we really be buying together?
I have approx £25000 deposit and will have more to cover the fees etc when we buy.
he has no deposit and has over £20000 of debt and most of it is defaulted.
he will not be approved to go on a mortgage.
hos debt is all from before we met, while I knew he had debts, I didn’t realise the extent until we moved in together.
my solicitor has a advised that if I (we) buy a house, as I am paying the full deposit and will be the sole person responsible for paying it, that I have a cohabitation agreement drawn up to ring fence the house, absolving him of any claim on the property. I would of course have to be solely paying the mortgage and not take any money from him for the house. I will be solely responsible for repairs and improvement though we will split the cost of the household bills.
I don’t think if we split up that he would make a claim on the house but I guess you never really know unless you break up, I want to protect the children’s home.
some advice would be greatly received.

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Flustercuckoo · 18/06/2023 13:30

blogvlog · 18/06/2023 12:41

If he contributes towards the mortgage or house directly then he would have the ability to challenge the cohabitation agreement. He would have to be able to prove that he has contributed directly to the house. The solicitor suggested that he has some of the bills in his name, then he is not directly paying for the house in anyway but is contributing to the ‘household’ .

But he's still living for free. Hence why I wouldn't live with him.

Toooldtoworry · 18/06/2023 19:57

blogvlog · 18/06/2023 12:44

My will and my will gives everything to my kids and my life insurance is already in trust to them, my mum is executor of my will and I have a clause that any property remains as ‘estate’ until my youngest child turns 18 and it then gets divided by the children.
we are not married and I’m not planning to get married.

You have absolutely done the right thing.

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