Exactly this. The amount of people near me and pretty much most of my friends are in houses they don’t need (but want) to be in. New extensions, 2 cars,2 holidays AND they ‘need’a nice big house with an extra bedroom because Dave works from home, all brand new expensive furniture. They HAVE to have a garage & a drive is non negotiable. Far bigger houses than they need. Family advising get the biggest you can etc, people falling in love with their ‘dream’ home.
i could’ve got a big house had I mortgaged myself up to the hilt. Instead, I was extremely cautious & got a tiny house (to basically get a roof over our heads) and stick at 1 child because of it.
I don’t think it’s appropriate to be bailing those out that have overstretched themselves.