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Are we being unreasonable?

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Fallulah · 20/05/2023 11:30

Sold out house to first time buyers quickly, all good. I had a post on here asking how long was reasonable for us to find somewhere and consensus was a few weeks/a month.

After two weeks we found a house to offer on - it’s not perfect and there are compromises but it’s in a great area which is important to us. The vendors are relocating and have an offer in on a property but nothing could proceed until they’d sold theirs. They accepted a low offer and we feel happy we got a good deal for the area. Again, all good - our buyers happy the chain is made and we thought things could move forward.

Except, my agent contacts the vendors’ agent to get things moving and he finds out that our vendors don’t actually have an offer in on anywhere and are considering some other properties. So actually nothing can proceed because they’ve lied. This remains the current position.

A property we would be interested in has come on the market - again lovely area and different compromises but bigger overall and may suit us better. However, the agents of this property are doing that annoying thing where they have one day of viewings so that viewers feel like loads of people are interested and think there is demand for the property. We can’t view until later next week.

Are we being unreasonable to keep the offer in on the first property, go and view the second property but not tell anyone (except our mortgage advisor so that he doesn’t progress too quickly on the first one)? Are we actually as bad as our vendors for doing this? I feel no loyalty to them because of their lies but I don’t want to mess our buyers around as they haven’t done anything wrong. Either way nothing is progressing yet because original vendors still don’t have a house. No money has been spent by me or my buyers.

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DeedlessIndeed · 17/06/2023 21:37

What a fantastic update OP. There is a phrase that always got said to us when we went through house buying dramas in Scotland (not sure if it's regional):

"What's for you, won't go by you."

I think about that every time anyone mentions their trials and tribulations of house buying 😅

Marmablade · 17/06/2023 22:07

Congratulations! Something similar happened to us and as I read the start of your thread I hope it finished the same way. We've been in ours a while now and absolutely love it. I'm sure you'll feel the same way too when you're in!

rainingsnoring · 17/06/2023 22:23

That's such great news!
So many potential sales are breaking down at present and various points that you had a fair chance.

Tryingtomoveisdrivingmecrazy · 18/06/2023 07:42

Fallulah · 20/05/2023 11:40

Also, another reason I am unsure about our vendors - our offer was accepted on Wednesday and as part of our written offer we asked that it was taken off the market and no more viewings to take place. It’s still live on Rightmove, I noticed last night.

I’ve found that with both our sale and onward purchase, the agents took several days to update Rightmove, so I wouldn’t read too much into that

Justontherightsideofnormal · 18/06/2023 08:09

My view on estate agents is very low (sorry if you are an estate agent and not a complete bell end) , do not believe anything they say. This was our experience.......
My son (20) bought a house during lock down. Offer was £7,5k over asking on the agreement that the property would be taken off the market immediately and no more viewings etc. Place was beyond a shit hole, I kid you not.
The offer was accepted, solicitors instructed etc.
then the estate agents rang...... oh sorry we have had a higher offer made?! What is your highest offer to secure the property?? As you can imagine this caused massive upset. The agents were told that the offer that was accepted was the highest and it was supposedly taken off market so why has another offer been made!?
The agents then contacted 24 hours later to say the other offer had been declined and the vendor will continue with my son.

I know for a fact that there was no other offer.... from speaking with friends this exact same scenario happened with them .... 😡

PimpMyFridge · 18/06/2023 08:15

OMG - no way!! That's amazing!
You must be over the moon and your buyers hopefully still on the table?
It's often the way that people offering way over asking subsequently drop out, but not always and for you to be the people the estate agent calls to see if still interested is brilliant.
Meant to be. Fingers crossed for completion for you. 🙏

Mywayward · 18/06/2023 08:38

What brilliant news!

InTheCludgie · 18/06/2023 08:44

This gives me hope OP.

Our house move fell through a week before the move date. We stuck with a seller who messed us about during the process and during that time we were told about a better property that had just come on the market. We didn't pursue it as our seller began to behave themselves, second property then sold after four days.

Our seller walked away as they were being threatened with redundancy and we ended up 3.5k out of pocket. Wish we hadn't been so loyal to them and just viewed the other house at least! I'm an awful person for hoping that transaction falls through too...

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