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AIBU? Seller’s won’t take house off the market

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Permanentlyfrazzled · 19/05/2023 19:11

Put an asking price offer right at the top of our budget last week as our very best offer. We are in a very short completed chain of two. The offer was probably above what the house is worth, but on the premise the house was taken off the market as I believed was the done thing.

We were expecting our offer to be accepted outright - but instead the sellers said they will accept on principle…unless someone puts in a higher offer, and therefore won’t take the house off the market for at least another week.

The house has only recently come to market - they have a number of viewings over next week and said they will come to a decision at the end of that.

We’ve been left very confused. We have sold and bought a few times and have never had this before.

It’s now been a few days and we haven’t heard any more, but it doesn’t sound like they’ve had another offer.

The agent says they will likely come back to us to proceed but to be honest the whole thing is making us quite nervous of them as sellers. I’m sure from their POV they are just trying to get the best price for the house, but we were very upfront and put down our best offer, at the price they were asking.

It has made us feel like they were trying to force a bidding war, knowing we couldn’t offer any more. We are sure our offer is being used as leverage at every viewing now ‘there is already an asking price offer on the table’….

We worry these people take the first opportunity to gazump us if a better offer comes in before exchange.

Are we right to be nervous? Would you walk away?

AIBU?

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WitchyWay · 02/06/2024 13:45

I'm not understanding your concern. If the house has only just come to market, they aren't sure what the house is worth, it may be worth more than what they put it up for as you came straight in at asking price. They have viewings lined up so want to see what happens, wouldn't you feel the same?

They don't owe you the house just because you went straight in at asking price. There's a good chance you'll still get it, but it's logical that they know what options they have before accepting.

It's so hard but you need to be patient and let it play out. They're working for their own interests as you are.

CatHerderSupreme · 02/06/2024 14:01

I think you’ve dodged a bullet there.

When you make an offer next time get home buyers insurance as soon as you make the offer - so worth it for peace of mind!

drainthebath · 02/06/2024 20:15

OhhhhhhhhBiscuits · 19/05/2023 19:16

View other houses with the same agent. Even if you know you won't buy them. That may make the agents push them a bit more. I would be weary though as they may guzump you when you get further down the line if they are like this now.

Or better still, let the agent know you are viewing other places with a different agent.

GreenClock · 02/06/2024 21:10

They were candid I suppose. They didn’t pretend to take it off the market but hawk it out on the sly. They wanted the very best price and they hung on for it whilst being upfront with you, although it was all a bit slow. I’d say they’re single-minded rather than dodgy. I actually think they’d be ok to deal with during the conveyancing because they’re tough ….but not duplicitous. So I’m against the grain a bit!

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