Adjoining house has been bought by the daughter of a local builder and her young family. I have now met both the daughter and her dad and they seem very pleasant. His building firm is well known locally for being reputable; he will be doing the refurbishment for her.
We had horrible neighbours before who complained about everything, the final straw being our recent kitchen extension - so I am very pleased to have a clean slate and really, really want to keep things on good terms this time.
They want to remove the chimney breasts on their side party wall - fine with me, previous owners of our house did the same on ours - but I feel they are slightly pressuring me to sign the party wall agreement without requesting a surveyor - "We know what we are doing - don't worry, we will put right any damage immediately" etc.
I assume they don't want the extra expense of paying for a surveyor to represent us (likely to be £1000+) but our house is completely immaculate after all our own recent work and I would be so pissed off to end up with a load of cracks -or worse - after months of work and thousands of pounds spent on our side.
What would you do? Insist on an expensive surveyor and risk alienating them weeks after they've moved in? Or just sign it and let them do what they want, on the understanding they'll put any damage right after they have finished?