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No rental properties. Going to be homeless and so scared

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Cola133 · 27/01/2023 21:21

We are a family of 4 mature adults, ages 78, 68, 47 & 43. We can afford rent up to £2k pcm, but there are just no properties available. We have searched up to 40 miles within all directions from my sister's job, but the competition is so fierce and we keep losing out despite being financially stable and looking for long term! I am absolutely in despair, we are going to be homeless! Our current landlord is selling our property, I just don't know what to do. We also have a cat and I just can't give him up. I can't sleep or eat, I might as well be dead, this situation is so awful, the worse I have ever experienced in my life. I feel so unsafe. Any advice please? Thank you

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LIZS · 28/01/2023 10:36

Was just about to suggest openrent, you need to refresh at least daily and be available to view that day.

LumpyandBumps · 28/01/2023 11:38

Openrent has been suggested, and it has the advantage of normally dealing direct with the landlord, so you are in a better position to be able to show that you are good tenants.

The last time I had a property to let there were 9 viewings ( where previously if I arranged 10 viewings I would be lucky if 3-4 turned up), everyone asked to take the house. Very few were unsuitable and I ended up letting it to the ‘nicest’ couple as I thought we could have a good relationship. Nearly 2 years later I still thank my lucky stars as they couldn’t be more perfect.

There are some advertisements on Gumtree as well. Just please be careful with Gumtree and Facebook as there are vile scum who try to use desperation as a tool to scam others.

I agree with getting your landlord to write a reference, which you could attach to applications or messages.

Your landlord also needs to be flexible, and if you find somewhere that needs you to take the tenancy virtually immediately, release you from any notice periods, etc.

Your landlord should be aware of how long the court process takes, so is likely to extend the notice period if you are actively looking for somewhere else. Keep in contact with the landlord. Let him know that you are trying.

You will have people saying don’t move until the bailiffs arrive, etc. This really only applies if you have a chance of being housed by the local authority.

Court proceedings are stressful and expensive. If it is hard to find alternative privately rented accommodation now it will be much harder after a court case for eviction and possibly a CCJ for costs.

From what you have said about search area and what you are already doing, I am sure you will find somewhere. If you are currently looking for a 4 person joint tenancy it will put off some landlords, as they may think it is akin to ‘adult sharers’. It might be a good idea to ask for the tenancy just in the names of the 2 employed family members, and have the others as permitted occupiers, or similar.

dreamingbohemian · 28/01/2023 11:52

There is so much competition that landlords can just go for their ideal tenants, which for 3-4 bedroom houses is usually a family with two professional earners. It's not your fault you don't fit the 'ideal' but that is sort of the reality.

You haven't said why you can't split up but it will be far better probably for the working couple to rent a 1 BR and the older couple try to get housed by the council or rent a retirement flat. Surely that is better than your worst-case scenario of being homeless and killing yourself?

Otherwise as PP said, try to get a 2BR as a working couple and then move the older people in later.

Singleandproud · 28/01/2023 12:02

The three of you that don't need to be near work move to a cheaper area, your sister lodges in the week and can visit at the weekend etc.

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Whatafielddayfortheheat · 28/01/2023 12:56

No advice OP but sorry this has happened to you. We live in Kent with 2 young children, our landlord sold recently and we too had a nightmare, no landlord would rent us a 2 bed as we have 2 kids, they can sat whatever they want at the moment as there's so much competition. We couldn't afford any of the 3 beds so were stuck.

In the end I told literally all my friends and luckily someone's relative had a house that was about to be empty and we moved in there. I know that doesn't really help you.

YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 28/01/2023 13:02

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LIZS · 28/01/2023 19:40

Would the elder of your group be eligible for social sheltered housing? These tend to be more available than family housing stock.

TheMoonHangsOverIdlewild · 28/01/2023 20:05

CouldOfIsntRight · 27/01/2023 21:51

Is a residential park an option in the short term whilst you find something more permanent?

This is what I'd be looking at Op maybe two properties ? They're always pet friendly and a static would be easy for your lovely cat to find his way around and lots of places to lie in the windows and feel the sun.

NellyBarney · 28/01/2023 20:52

When I last let a property in the SE less than 12 months ago, within a week my letting agent gave me a list of 10!! candidates. It's crazy out there. We were in a similar situation, wanting to rent until we ground somewhere new to buy. 5 days before the removal vans arrived at our previous house, we found something. Way too small and 1 hour away from our kids school, but we took it. We had booked a holiday let just in case. I'd look at caravan parks, holiday lets etc to tie you over until you find somewhere.

LoveLabradors · 28/01/2023 21:05

Feel for you so much OP. Pets are precious and part of the family. So sorry you have this awful pressure. Really hope something comes long for you and your family very soon. Likewise @lollipoprainbow - I hope you find something too.

Greenfairydust · 28/01/2023 21:47

OP, I would try to consider a radical change. If you can't find anything where you are and all want to stay together you might be better off relocating to a cheaper area where there is less demand for accommodation.

Or find ways to combine your income to buy somewhere, again in a cheaper area. As someone has already mentioned you might want to look at shared-ownership. You could get a house that way.

Because you will always be at the mercy of landlords if you stay in the South East and renting where rents are expensive and there are a lot of people competing for homes.

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