We have been in the house a few months and discussing a new kitchen design for when we have enough money. options are to design exactly what we want with more units and mostly drawers (expensive) or do it as cheap as possible. this lead to talking about how much we should plug into the house.
we don’t know if we’ll stay in the house long term. Size and location currently ok for us. When the neighbours are not being awful with noise it’s not bad. I’d like a slightly bigger house with a bigger eat in kitchen but we don’t need one. We don’t have plans for children in the near future (at least another 3 years if ever). if we stay here and have no children we’ll be mortgage free before 45 years. old.
a friend said with her first house she knew it wouldn’t be a forever house so refused to spend anything but the bare minimum. But she thinks that was the reason she hated that house while she lived there and after and it took a long time to sell.
would love your thoughts on getting this balance