over xmas i have learnt that a relative in her 60s has lost the plot with keeping on top of her house . she has always been a bit odd and then started hoarding . Now i have learnt her cooker doesn't work nor her boiler so she boils a kettle to wash and also that the loo doesn't flush - boak!! she has continence problems and i don't know if this is linked to the loo and she uses incontinence pads as a coping mechanism . she won't let anyone in the house but when we dropped her off i could see the window and door frames are rotting . also the roof leaks .
when i ask about the house and work that needs doing she gets properly huffy and disengages. she's a very prickly character but has capacity . it's not financial . she has at least 300k stashed away .
i'm wondering at what point environmental health might intervene and condemn the house ? it's a terraced house but i don't think any of this affects the neighbours so bearing in mind it's her house and she has capacity do they just leave her to it? i'm struggling to know what to do . my instinct is to refer it to
environmental health but she will probably never speak to me again if i do and i would prefer not to do this unless it's clear they'll do something to
help- hoping someone knows about these things and can advise ?