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Where is our incentive to buy a house?!

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pinkfishbluefish · 11/12/2022 19:54

We are fortunate to have the option of really cheap rent (just under 600pcm). Price is fixed and will not fluctuate for at least another two years. We have a lovely little home, everything’s recently refurbished and modern. Very much a 2 up 2 down home, the rooms aren’t huge but we have two bathrooms and a large garden.
We are on average incomes that, 5 years ago wouldve bought us a 3 bed home in a nice area but we were 18 then and in no position to buy obviously! We work in the same profession and incomes are similar to that of a teacher. If we were to buy the house we are in, the mortgage repayments at current interest rates would be about £1200-1300. Over double what we pay in rent! I cannot comprehend that. We could afford it, just, but we would have significantly less disposable income and not much to save with.
To buy the same size house now we’d have to compromise on area and move away from the suburb we are in. We feel secure and can relax where we are as crime is very low. Everyone looks out for each other and works hard, there’s a real community feel and schools and amenities locally are great.

We can keep renting at this price or pay 2x the amount if we bought an identical place and in doing so have hardly anything for fun/holidays- the things that make life fun- all just to pay off a mortgage so we will own a small property of this size in 35 years time. Forget a bigger terraced house or semi. And in and amongst the horrendous repayments we’d have a bill to foot if the boiler broke, or the oven packed in. What is our incentive to buy?
Other than, as time goes on we will need a larger house than this. It does work for now and we are space savvy. We’re hoping to TTC next year and could happily afford a child within our budget but if an additional 800 from the disposable income pool were to go on a mortgage, things would be so much tighter especially when maternity leave came to an end and extortionate childcare costs kick in.

Am I missing something really obvious or is the system just not designed to help FTBs anymore? I know compromises have to be made but believe if you’re working things should be easier than this!

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Reugny · 16/12/2022 15:24

YukoandHiro · 16/12/2022 13:29

Lots of useful comments here but if you do want to buy it's best to do so before having children as your joint income takes a massive hit one way or another after (childcare, reduced hours, often a combo of both). You would get approved for a mortgage that would be out of reach after.

This.

There is a reason OP why myself and others are telling you to get a house before you have a child.

Children become more expensive as they get older.

Bard6817 · 05/02/2023 09:08

It’s a lifestyle choice - and for the time being your rent is less than a mortgage. Of that continues long term, fab, if not, you’ll presumably have to be paying market rates.

I was in a similar position for many years, eventually LL decided to sell, which i was lucky and coincided with me meeting a partner who had her own home. So it was an easy transition for me, but luck rather than judgement.

However what i did do, was save, and invest…. The rental difference went into Isa and Pesions, and thus i’m now in the position to be a cash buyer for a forever home that we are looking for. Her equity is hers and will allow her to retire at mid 40’s.

The point is - a home can be an investment but if you don’t choose that route find another investment route. It’s not just about pensions it’s about being financially independant and having enough money to live without having to work, and either have so much money you can afford to rent after you retire or owning your own home at that point so you don’t have that expense.

whirlyhead · 05/02/2023 09:37

I am currently looking at selling up and renting for a while as I don’t know where I want to live. I’m not bothered about paying rent as I have no kids to inherit so the government will probably get my estate. Or a charity. The brits are a bit obsessed with owning property. Sometimes renting is the best option. Even if you buy, the bank still owns a big chunk of your house and you can also lose a house you own.

cestlavielife · 05/02/2023 11:28

superdupernova · 11/12/2022 23:56

You couldn't rent a 2 bed flat for £600 where I live. The mortgage on our 3 bed house is £700. You're very lucky that your rent is so cheap. If I were you I'd stay put for now, see where the market goes and save in the meantime. You can reevaluate in a year or two.

London zone 2 or 1 is competely different. Rent on a on paper 700k flat might be 2k a month. Buying that flat with a 100k deposit is alot more in repayment mortgage. Plus all maintenance and service charges.

Reugny · 05/02/2023 11:49

cestlavielife · 05/02/2023 11:28

London zone 2 or 1 is competely different. Rent on a on paper 700k flat might be 2k a month. Buying that flat with a 100k deposit is alot more in repayment mortgage. Plus all maintenance and service charges.

Rent is a lot more than that now unless you want to live in a dive.

BeverlyHa · 30/06/2023 21:51

I hope you live the nice life feeling that well. Curious what happens, because I never put such an amazing amount of effort into thinking I deserve to buy a property. But we buy properties with husband, because we need somewhere to live

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