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Finally we have the green light but shitting it!

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Joelijane · 14/11/2022 20:57

My partner and I have had the green light from his boss that he can move to an office up north, where we are both originally from. It's all i've wanted since I was first pregnant with my first child. Living in London since 2004 and now having two boys ages nearly 6 and 3 we have outgrown our 2 bed flat. My job is very transferable in health care and he is in the creative industry. He was always less positive about us moving, despite acknowledging that we cannot afford anything more than our 2 bed. We both generally WFH and managed the childcare between us. The extra space would allow us both an office each plus a bedroom each, garden, closer to both sets of parents.... My question is this.... (holds breath) he is concerned that the children won't have so much opportunity available to them as they grow as there is in London and that the schooling won't be as good a 'general standard' as London. We've had heated talks about this. I hated school but I acknowledge that was my own personal stuff, my friends were pretty happy and did well. I basically feel this impending guilt that if we move and say one of the family struggles to settle or find friends that it will all be my fault. I wondered has anyone made the move from London back to Liverpool/Southport area? How was that experience? Any recommendations on areas to live? he just needs to be able to commute to Manchester Salford quays 1 or 2 days a week. Thanks so much for reading x

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CorsicaDreaming · 16/11/2022 23:09

On the school standard issue - I'd read the OFSTED reports online for schools in the area you want to move to. If there are very good - outstanding schools in those areas?

Generally, though, I'd post again with a title that specifically states can people give you advice on moving from London to Liverpool area - your current title is probably too general to attract the advice you need.

vinoandbrie · 16/11/2022 23:20

If you’re commuting to Manchester, would you consider living in Manchester? Didsbury or Chorlton for example.

Pearfacebanana · 16/11/2022 23:28

It is a big move so it's natural to be nervous but it does sound like he's not sure what goes on north of the Watford gap! Is he a londoner? He needs to realise there is life outside and that there is a reason there was an exodus in the pandemic! Yes London has lots of great opportunities but so do other places. Being able to drive a car. Being able to get to another town quickly. Access to national parks. Access to the beach. Access to people who know there if life beyond London... ;)

Pearfacebanana · 16/11/2022 23:29

Just realised he's not a Londoner but clearly been there a while!

Joelijane · 17/11/2022 11:53

Thank you all, Manchester is too far from our parents which we agree is part of the reason for moving plus we can't get so much for our money as we would like at least a 4 bed detached to enable home working for both of us. He's been in London for 25 years and is 48 so I get that it's over half of his life time plus he really found his feet in London and felt a sense of belonging (as did I) but we are priced out in terms of housing, could only get a flat. Will repost with an amended title to get more advice, thanks so much

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Curlyfifteen · 17/11/2022 21:49

So he doesnt want to move. What can you do without one of you loosing?

can you try renting out your london place for summer (airbnb) and move up there for a month and get a feel for it?

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