I had a big extension done in the lockdown winter of 20/21, which went remarkably smoothly overall. There was an expected snag which appeared fairly soon after completion, with some of the ceiling timbers having been quite significantly damp during the winter build, and shrinking while drying out. Builder sent plasterers to re skim them after a full year of drying out and no further change expected. But with materials and labour costs having risen in the meantime I think he wasn't all that happy. We had a standard JCT Homeowner contract but to be really honest I am not sure where exactly it is right now. I hope it's filed safely.
Two further problems have just emerged. One is that a roof tile has completely slipped out of place and needs to be fixed back on. The more complicated one is that the thermostatic control for one of the two zones of underfloor heating doesn't seem to talk to the main unit. When we have the UFH main manifold unit up to temperature (we were told to set it to 40-45° to achieve a room temp of 20-25 max), this zone is constantly pumping the hot water through, even when the floor-embedded thermostat says it's gone above the demanded temperature. (Btw this is the diagnosis of the plumber who installed the wet side of it, and came back for an annual boiler service - paid for of course! - last month). So what happens is that when it's a sunny day and there is warmth from solar gain or from running the oven (it's an open plan kitchen-dining-living space) the room gets uncomfortably hot in the winter, although it is still really cost effective heating. Christmas Day last year we actually had to throw the patios doors wide open which felt ridiculously wasteful. It is an Omnie system if that helps.
I have done the bulk of the project managing, with DH as more of my client because I was the one who really wanted to do this house. There is loads of interior stuff still left, which we generally do as a team, but we both have FT jobs and it's gone slowly. But I have also recently been signed off work with stress and it has emerged that I have underlying anxiety/depression and one of the features of it is that interactions where I am having to be demanding or stand up for something are cripplingly terrifying. I can do it but it exhausts me and sends me into negative spirals of really brutal self criticism. DH is at a bit of a loss when this happens. So far I have emailed, WhatsApped and left voicemail for the lead builder (main contractor). Two weeks between each of those. I also sent a message to the electrical subcontractor which has been read but ignored.
If you've got to the end of this essay, I think what I'm asking is for help phrasing my next demand of the builder, and secondly any bright ideas what the issue with the UFH thermostat might be. Is this the point where I quote the contract at him, or get someone else to quote and offer him that to just pay us off? Or do I mention small claims court? Each of these things is raising my heart rate and making me feel pathetic. Please go easy on me as I already feel like an idiot.