Back in April our mortgage advisor told us we'd have no problem getting a mortgage with 1 years self employed tax returns. So we sold my wife's flat and the rental income we got from it, found a house and applied for a mortgage.
After 6 months of constant drama, stress, moving goalposts and being messed around by the lender, the recent Tory shenanigans have put an end to any hope we had of getting a suitable mortgage.
My wife is disabled and can't work, I earn enough to support us but not loads, and she inherited early so we can afford a house as long as we can get a mortgage x4 my salary. I'm 36 and she's 38. I'd like to buy a home so we can adapt the house to suit us, save for the future and balance my workload with being a carer for her and a mother. We can't get any benefits because of the inheritance/deposit.
Is it worth trying again next year, or is that it for people like us having a chance at buying a home? Apparently it's easier when you have 2 years tax returns, but I just wasn't prepared for the chaos and changeable nature of this process. Do I just need to make my peace with renting forever?