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Exhausted by yet another rental search

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KookyNotOoky · 14/10/2022 22:21

Not necessarily looking for replies - I WFH and live alone so just want to vent. I know other people have worse problems, but this in mine right now.

I'm currently stuck in the hell of searching for a new rental. Everyday I check Right Move/Zoopla/Spare Room every couple of hours (when I should be working) to see what's new. Same story it's been for my past 10 years of renting - obscenely expensive rents for dog holes. I'm now on my 6th rental in that time (in between which were bouts of sofa surfing/Air BNBing - if you include those it would more be like 10-12).

Numerous arranged viewings have been cancelled as the house has been let in the interim, and I've wasted my leave on viewing crapholes.

The current move is due to numerous issues with the flat since day, now culminating in the landlord turning the building into a construction site, with the end date for these works repeatedly postponed. They were supposed to end in September and I received a letter the other day stating that further extensive works are now scheduled. Needless to say, the agents conveniently forgot to mention these long-planned works to me at the viewing/sign-up process. I complained, and they replied with a one-liner - 'you can move anytime with a month's notice'. As far I'm concerned, it was let to me fradulently and I am due a reduced rent for putting up with constant building work all day, yet what can I do? No point going the legal route as they've let me leave the contract early. Just another letting agents full of two-faced lying scumbag leeches. How do these people sleep at night?

I'm trying to save for a deposit so I can look to buy somewhere next year or 2024, but am stuck in that quandary of - rent somewhere crap but cheap so I can save more, or rent somewhere actually nice to live in but more expensive? I earn about the averge non-London UK salary. Realistically I do not want to pay more than £700 +bills a month for rent (which is already an utterly exorbitant figure), yet it seems that anything actually nice starts at at £800. Last year when I was looking for this place £600 could get you something ok-ish. Now there is nothing you can get for £600 except a house-share or lodging arrangement. I'm in my 30s. My choice is to pay through the nose to live like an adult, or live like an overgrown student. And all the time the rents just go up and up whilst my salary stays the same.

I'm done thinking about the wider implications of all this. The house/rent price insanity started under Labour and had continued unabated under the Tories. None of the Westminster blob give a toss. To them on their £80k salary + expenses there is no housing crisis, so they're in no urgency to do anything and therefore nothing will be done. My long-term plan was always to have kids one day, but honestly the housing issue alone is making me really have second thoughts. My parents bought a nice house in their 20, no degree, just a basic admin job. That seems like an impossible dream for me, and I dread to think what things will be like when any child of mine is an adult. The thought of raising my kid in some horrible cramped apartment - just awful. Even getting a dog - another dream - has been repeatedly put off, as most landlords won't allow pets, and frankly the houses have been far too small for a dog so it would just be selfish.

I await the usual replies from home-owners - cut down on avocado toast, be thankful you don't live in [insert third world hellhole here], get a better job, no such thing as a free lunch blah blah.

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AnnieMay55 · 14/10/2022 22:32

I understand your pain. My daughter late 30s and single has only this year managed to rent on her own . Previously all these years since graduating she has house shared with randoms. She now has to pay £900 + bills a month and that was the cheapest she could find so now no chance of saving. She also works from home and again no pets allowed I constantly worry about her. It's just hopeless getting a mortgage on one salary.

Winceybincey · 14/10/2022 22:39

what about a professional house share until next year when you’ll have your deposit to buy? Lots of workers in 30’s and 40’s share. The market is grim at the moment and many are having the same struggles. Take advantage of being child free at the moment and just take what you can afford for now, it’s not for long.

BMW6 · 14/10/2022 22:41

You have my sympathy, it must be totally shit.

Perhaps a house share is the better option, or should I say the least worst. At least then you can save more towards home ownership.

KookyNotOoky · 14/10/2022 22:49

AnnieMay55 · 14/10/2022 22:32

I understand your pain. My daughter late 30s and single has only this year managed to rent on her own . Previously all these years since graduating she has house shared with randoms. She now has to pay £900 + bills a month and that was the cheapest she could find so now no chance of saving. She also works from home and again no pets allowed I constantly worry about her. It's just hopeless getting a mortgage on one salary.

Assume this is in London. London is completely gone. Broken beyond reapair. Unless she's on 40k there's no point 'living' there (surviving would be a better word - even that won't go far down there).

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KookyNotOoky · 14/10/2022 22:56

Thanks all. I have done many house shares in past and frankly I don't get on with ppl that well. It's usually ok for the first couple months and then I find their annoying habits and quirks extremely grating (and no doubt, vice versa). I actually no longer speak to one of my previous best friend as the relationship was completely ruined by living together.

I've done lodging and obviously it's dependent on how nice the owner is. Had good and bad experiences. Still its essentially a financial version of parent-child relationship and it's impossible to ever fully relax in that environment - their house, their rules at the end of the day. Might as well just move back home like an overgrown child and save the money.

I have friends who have managed to buy and often their mortgages are equal to or even less than rent I would be paying. Yet my 10 years of renting, never in arrears, deposit always returned in full, counts for nothing as I don't have a spare 30K lying around. It's just utter insanity.

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donttellmehesalive · 15/10/2022 05:42

I think I'd just put up with the building work - which presumably will improve the property in some way - and stay there. When is it scheduled to finish now? It might be finished before you find somewhere suitable.

CiderJolly · 15/10/2022 05:58

You mentioned moving back home- is this an option so you can save?

Ilikewinter · 15/10/2022 06:20

As your WFH I'd buy a caravan ..... I dont mean on a Haven site!, there are some lovely sites independently owned, and live by the beach.

Redqueenheart · 15/10/2022 07:36

Well if you work from home you have the ability to live anywhere you like.

I would pick a cheaper area in the country where there is less demands for rental (meaning not a big city or town) and rent there while you are saving to buy.

You could also look at buying a shared-ownership house (avoid shared-ownership flats) as a way to get yourself a permanent home.

MrsMorrisey · 15/10/2022 07:42

No advice, just a "I know how you feel" post. 😊 you're not alone in this problem.

Summerhillsquare · 15/10/2022 07:43

Do you garden OP? I have a small house with a big garden I'd rent out for less than that... problem is it's in the north east 😉

RidingMyBike · 15/10/2022 09:50

Sympathy OP, I've been where you are - my record was five moves in six months as so many unsuitable. People wanting a lodger but failing to grasp that would mean someone living in their house type stuff(!).

I wanted to say, having needed to find a rental last year, that fiddling with the app settings helped - I changed Rightmove and OnTheMarket to immediate notification rather than every 24 hour and set them to push notifications so anything that came up appeared immediately on my phone screen.

I hope you manage to find somewhere. The rental market is brutal. I did manage to get on the property ladder but only because of several deaths of elderly and not-so-elderly relatives meant I had a deposit.

BringMeTea · 15/10/2022 12:11

You have my full sympathy OP. It Is SHIT. Flowers

BlueberryMuffin817 · 15/10/2022 15:23

You have my full sympathy OP. I know how you feel. We moved into our current rental about 18 months ago and it was a nightmare. The only thing I can suggest is adjusting your search criteria if possible.

We were renting a house and wanted to move into another house but it was impossible to even get a viewing. But because of WFH/everyone wanting more space post Covid/a lot of new flats being built in the city centre we were easily able to get a large flat. We made an offer £100 less than the rent they were asking for, which the landlord rejected at first, but then came back a week later saying he'd changed his mind. It meant I had to sell all of my garden furniture as there wasn't anywhere to store it, but it's all worked out for the best.

KookyNotOoky · 15/10/2022 19:43

CiderJolly · 15/10/2022 05:58

You mentioned moving back home- is this an option so you can save?

Absolutely not. My dad was always incredibly irritbale, lashing out over the stupidest of things, and it's gotten worse as he's aged. He's also incapable of treating me like an adult. I can manage a week over Xmas but that's it.

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KookyNotOoky · 15/10/2022 20:04

donttellmehesalive · 15/10/2022 05:42

I think I'd just put up with the building work - which presumably will improve the property in some way - and stay there. When is it scheduled to finish now? It might be finished before you find somewhere suitable.

'Roof maintenance' started June - scheduled to finish September. It's not October and they've said further is done, plus now they're going to install new windows, giving an end date of well into the new year. I'm sure it'll be great when it's done, but why I should put it up with it in the meantime? My windows have been been blocked since July by their scaffolding.

They did not tell me such extensive and lengthy works were scheduled when I moved in. Had they done I would not have moved in here (which is no doubt why they didn't tell me). So bascially I was conned into moving here based on false information (lies of omission, not commission).

There are a whole bunch of other issues I won't bore you with - I'm just absolutely done with it.

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donttellmehesalive · 16/10/2022 10:28

Fair enough. I'm just saying that, at this point, unable to find anywhere else, I'd stay. I hope you find somewhere.

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